Mabwenzi enieni a Mesiya ali a makhalidwe abwino, okhulupirika ndi odalirika, ndipo ali achifundo, achifundo, ndi aulemu. Ulemu ndi chisomo cha mzimu—chizindikiro chakumwamba. Angelo sakwiya, nsanje, kapena odzikonda. Mawu achipongwe kapena achipongwe samatuluka pakamwa pawo. Ngati tikufuna kukhala anzake a angelo, zimenezi zingatheke ngati tikuchita zinthu mwaulemu komanso mwaulemu.

Choonadi cha Mulungu chinalinganizidwa kupangitsa wochilandira kukhala wolemekezeka, kuyenga kukoma kwake, ndi kuyeretsa kuzindikira kwake. Palibe amene angakhale wa Yesu ngati alibe mzimu umene Yesu ali nawo. Koma akakhala ndi mzimu wake, amausonyeza mwaulemu. Khalidwe lake limakhala loyera, khalidwe lake limakhala lokondweretsa, mawu ake opanda chinyengo. Iye amayamikira chikondi chimene, m’malo mokwiyitsidwa, chimakhala choleza mtima, chokoma mtima, cha chiyembekezo, ndi chopirira ( 1 Akorinto 13,4:7-XNUMX ).

Waulemu ngati Yesu

Chimene Yesu ankaimira m’moyo wake padziko lapansili ndi chitsanzo kwa Mkhristu aliyense. Iye ali chitsanzo chathu, osati kokha mu chiyero chake chopanda banga, komanso m’kuleza mtima kwake, kukoma mtima, ndi khalidwe lachipambano. Koma nthawi zonse anali waubwenzi komanso waulemu. Anali chabe chitsanzo chosayerekezeka cha ulemu. Nthawi zonse anali ndi maonekedwe aubwenzi ndi mawu achitonthozo kwa osowa ndi oponderezedwa.

Kukhalapo kwake kunapangitsa kuti banja likhale loyera. Moyo wake unali chotupitsa pakati pa anthu osiyanasiyana. Wopanda chivulazo ndi wosaipitsidwa, iye anayendayenda momasuka pakati pa ankhanza, achipongwe, ndi amwano; pakati pa okhometsa misonkho opanda chilungamo, Asamariya osalungama, asilikali achikunja, alimi ankhanza ndi makamu a anthu amitundumitundu. Apa ndi apo ananena mawu achifundo, pamene ankawona anthu otopa mopanda dala kusenza akatundu olemera, iye ankawathandiza iwo kusenza zothodwetsa zawo, ndipo iwo anabwereza kwa iwo zimene iye anaphunzira m’chilengedwe ponena za chikondi cha Mulungu, chifundo ndi ubwino wake.

Iye anayesa kusonkhezera chiyembekezo pa milandu yovuta kwambiri ndi yopanda chiyembekezo: Anawatsimikizira kuti atha kukhala opanda cholakwa ndi osalakwa, kuti khalidwe lawo likhoza kusintha m’njira yoti adzatsimikizira kukhala ana a Mulungu.

Ngakhale kuti Yesu anali Myuda, anayanjana ndi Asamariya, n’kusokoneza miyambo ya Afarisi ya mtundu wake. Ngakhale kuti anali ndi tsankho, iye anavomera kuchereza alendo kwa anthu onyozeka ameneŵa. Anagona pansi pa denga lawo, amadya nawo patebulo pawo - kusangalala ndi chakudya chomwe manja awo adakonza ndikupereka - chophunzitsidwa m'misewu yawo ndikuwachitira iwo mokoma mtima kwambiri ndi ulemu.

Yesu anali mlendo wolemekezeka pa gome la okhometsa msonkho. Ndi chifundo chake ndi ubwenzi wake wokondana, iye anasonyeza kuti amalemekeza ulemu wa munthu; ndipo adayesanso kuti asapereke chidaliro chomwe chidayikidwa mwa iwo. Mawu ake anali odalitsika, mphamvu yopatsa moyo miyoyo yawo ya ludzu. Mwanjira imeneyi, malingaliro atsopano anadzutsidwa. Zosokoneza zamagulu mwadzidzidzi zidawona kuthekera kwa moyo watsopano.

Chofewetsa nsalu chachikhristu ndi chotchingira chagolide

Chipembedzo cha Yesu chimafewetsa chilichonse chomwe chili cholimba ndi chonyowa m'makhalidwe ndi kusalaza chilichonse chomwe chili choyipa komanso chakuthwa m'makhalidwe. Chipembedzochi chimatulutsa mawu ofewa ndi khalidwe lopambana. Tiyeni tingophunzira kwa Yesu momwe tingaphatikizire chiyero chapamwamba ndi makhalidwe abwino ndi mawonekedwe adzuwa. Mkristu wachifundo ndi waulemu ndiye mtsutso wokhutiritsa wa uthenga wabwino.

Mfundo yakuti, “Mukondane wina ndi mnzake ndi chikondi chenicheni.” ( Aroma 12,10:XNUMX ) ndiyo maziko enieni a chimwemwe chabanja. Ulemu Wachikristu uyenera kukhalapo m’nyumba iliyonse. Iye ali ndi mphamvu zofewetsa zikhalidwe zomwe zikadakhala zouma ndi zankhanza. Mkazi ndi mayi angamangirire mwamuna wake ndi ana kwa iye ndi maunansi olimba ngati ali wodekha mosalephera ndi waulemu m’mawu ndi khalidwe lake. Ulemu Wachikristu ndi chamba chagolide chomwe chimamangirira achibale pamodzi ndi chomangira cha chikondi chimene chimalimba kwambiri tsiku lililonse.

Kuwongoka ndi makhalidwe okha sizokwanira

Aliyense amene amanena kuti amatsatira Yesu koma ali wankhanza, wosakoma mtima, ndiponso wopanda ulemu m’mawu ndi m’zochita, sanaphunzirepo kanthu kwa Yesu. Munthu wopunduka, wolongolola, wolongolola si Mkhristu; pakuti monga Mkristu ali wolingana ndi Kristu. Khalidwe la ena amene amati ndi Akristu n’lopanda ubwenzi ndiponso lopanda ulemu moti ngakhale mbali zawo zabwino n’zoipa. Pamene kuli kwakuti kuwona mtima kwawo sikukayikiridwa, umphumphu wawo ungakhale wosatsutsika; koma kuwona mtima ndi umphumphu zokha sizimawonjezera kusowa kwa kukoma mtima ndi ulemu. Mkristu woona ndi womvetsa zinthu, wokhulupirika, wachifundo ndi waulemu komanso wolungama ndi woona mtima.

Ulemu muzochitika zovuta

Mawu okoma ali ngati mame ndi kunjenjemera kwa mtima. Lemba limanena za Yesu kuti chisomo chinatsanuliridwa pa milomo yake ( Salmo 45,3:50,4 ) kotero kuti “adziŵe kulankhula m’nyengo yake kwa iwo otopa” ( Yesaya 4,6:4,29 ). Ndipo Yehova amatiuza kuti: “Mawu anu akhale okoma mtima nthaŵi zonse”, “pamenepo [adzachitira] zabwino iwo amene amawalankhula.” ( Akolose XNUMX:XNUMX; Aefeso XNUMX:XNUMX ) N

Ena amene mumakumana nawo angakhale aukali ndi amwano; koma musakhale aulemu pa izo. Amene akufuna kusunga ulemu wawo bwino ayenera kusamala kuti asawononge ulemu wa ena mopanda chifukwa. Lamuloli ndi lopatulika, ngakhale mukuchita zinthu zovuta kwambiri komanso zovuta. Kodi tikudziwa zimene Mulungu akufunabe kuchita ndi milandu yooneka ngati yopanda chiyembekezo imeneyi? M'mbuyomu adayitana anthu omwe milandu yawo inalibe chiyembekezo kuposa yawo ndipo wachita ntchito yayikulu kudzera mwa iwo. Mzimu wake unagwira ntchito pamtima, kubweretsa mphamvu zodabwitsa ku luso lililonse. Yehova anaona mwa miyala yolimba, yosasema, yamtengo wapatali imene ikanapirira namondwe, kutentha, ndi kupsinjika. Mulungu amaona ndi maso osiyana ndi anthu. Saweruza maonekedwe akunja, koma amasanthula mtima ndi kuweruza moyenera.

Pafupifupi chikoka chosatsutsika

Ulemu weniweni wosakanikirana ndi choonadi ndi chilungamo umapangitsa moyo kukhala watanthauzo komanso wokongola ndi wokongola. Mawu okoma mtima, maonekedwe achifundo, nkhope yachimwemwe zimapatsa Mkristu chikoka chimene chili chovuta kuchikana. Podziiŵala, m’kuunika ndi mtendere ndi chisangalalo chimene amapereka mosalekeza kwa ena, amapeza chisangalalo chenicheni.

Chotero tiyeni tidziiŵale tokha ndi kufunafuna mipata imene tingadzetse chimwemwe ndi mpumulo kwa ena mwa kuwachitira zabwino ndi kuwasonyeza chikondi chopanda dyera! Osanena mawu oipa! Sonyezani chifundo chachikondi m’malo monyalanyaza chisangalalo cha ena! Zosangalatsa zolingalira zimenezi, zoyambira bwino kwambiri panyumba ndiyeno kufalikira kutali ndi banja lonse, zimachita mbali yaikulu m’chisangalalo chonse cha moyo. Ngati muwanyalanyaza, mumathandizira kwambiri mtolo wa moyo.

"The Grace of Courtesy", mu: Zizindikiro za Nthawi, Julayi 16, 1902