Kuwoneratu zenizeni za Laodikaya. Wolemba Greg Cox
Dziwani d. Chofiyira.: Nkhaniyi yochokera mu Ogasiti 2019 ikunena za zenizeni mu mpingo wa Adventist zomwe sizikudziwika kwa ambiri. Abale omwe amamva kuti akugwirizana ndi Chibale ndi ofunika kwa ife monga wolemba, yemwe umboni wake wowona mtima, wochititsa chidwi komanso wokhudza mtima womwe tinkafuna kugawana ndi owerenga athu. Kunenezana sikudzatifikitsa kulikonse. Tiyenera kudzazidwa ndi mzimu wa Mulungu wachifundo ndi wosachimwa. M'menemo muli chiyembekezo! Umu ndi momwe timafunira kuti nkhaniyi imveke.
Bungwe la LGBT SDA Kinship limalimbikitsa poyera kuti mpingo wa Adventist uvomereze ndi kukondwerera munthu aliyense »zogonana". Pachifukwachi adalimbikitsanso kuletsa kulankhula ndi ziwonetsero zotsutsana ndi Coming Out Ministries (COM) mothandizidwa ndi General Conference. Kinship idadzipereka kuletsa COM ndikuyika zopinga pakugwira ntchito yake. Chifukwa COM imatumikira anthu omwe akufuna kusiya zochitika za LGBT ndikulowanso thupi la Khristu. COM yalengeza kupulumutsidwa ku chikhalidwe chowononga cha LGBT. Kupyolera mu maimelo, zopempha, mafoni, ndi maubwenzi ndi anthu otchuka mu Tchalitchi cha Adventist omwe amalimbikitsa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komanso amuna okhaokha, Kinship ayesetsa kangapo kuti aletse COM ku utumiki uwu.
Monga membala wakale wa SDA Kinship, ndakhumudwa ndi zomwe Kinship akuchita. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndinalembera kalata yotseguka iyi kwa mpingo wanga ndi atsogoleri ake kuti tiyambe kukambirana mwachindunji. Cholinga changa ndi kukambirana moona mtima komanso kotseguka kuti ziwonekere zochita za SDA Kinship - bungwe lomwe ndidathandizirapo.
kalata yotseguka
"Banja langa lokondedwa la Advent,
Posachedwa ndawonetsedwa imelo yochokera kwa Floyd Poenitz, Wachiwiri kwa Purezidenti wa SDA Kinship. Imeloyi idatumizidwa kwa utsogoleri wa mpingo wa Adventist Church ku South Africa, komwe Coming Out Ministries (COM) idalandira chiitano. Linali ndi pempho lomveka bwino loti asamulole kuti azitumikira kumeneko.
Kuwerenga imelo yochokera kwa Floyd Poenitz kunandikhumudwitsa kwambiri. Mawuwa anali ndi zifukwa zambiri komanso zabodza za COM. Makamaka, akuti COM imapereka chithandizo chosinthira. Floyd Poenitz sanangokakamiza kuletsa COM kulankhula. Ananenanso kuti amayambitsa zovulaza m'maganizo, zauzimu komanso zathupi kwa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso transgender. Komabe, imelo ya Floyd Poenitz inalibe Lemba limodzi kapena lingaliro lovomerezeka lachikhristu.
chisankho pa Karimeli
Chifukwa chiyani ndikukhudzidwa ndi Kinship and Coming out Ministries? Kunena zowona, mabungwe onsewa akuyimira mphambano zamasiku ano za Adventism. Izi n’zofanana ndi zimene Aisiraeli anachita paphiri la Karimeli. Ku mbali imodzi, COM ikulalikira uthenga wabwino: Mzimu Woyera ndi wokhoza kukupulumutsani ku uchimo, inde, ku uchimo uliwonse, ndi kukonzanso mtima wanu. Akhoza kukuchotsani ku moyo wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kumbali inayi, Chibale chimayima ngati wochirikiza zilakolako za munthu payekha zakugonana, zizolowezi zachibadwidwe zathupi ndipo amafotokoza moyo uno ngati 'chikondi' choperekedwa ndi Mulungu. Kwenikweni, Chibale chikufunsa mpingo wa Adventist kuti: ›Tiyeni tikhale ndi kugonana kwathu momasuka, popanda malire komanso ndi malingaliro athu onse. Tiyeni tisinthe tanthauzo la Malemba n’kulemba nkhani yathu mmene tikufunira komanso mmene tikumvera.’ Okondedwa mpingo, kodi mukugwirizana ndi zimenezi?
Chodetsa nkhaŵa choyambirira cha SDA Kinship
Ndinalinso membala wa board of directors a SDA Kinship, zomwe zimandipangitsa kukhala wosamasuka tsopano. Anapita kale kwambiri masiku omwe gulu la LGBT linkazunzidwa poyera komanso ponseponse pochotsedwa ntchito, kuthamangitsidwa, kuthamangitsidwa, komanso kusalidwa ndi anthu amdera lanu komanso achibale awo. Zochitika izi zasokoneza ubale pakati pa Mpingo wathu Waulere ndi mamembala ake a LGBT. Ndikhoza kutsimikizira zimenezo pandekha. Mamembala a Tchalitchi omwe adakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, omwe anali kulimbana ndi malingaliro awo, amalakalaka pemphero, kumvetsetsa ndi chithandizo. Monga membala wakale wa komiti ya Kinship, ndimakumbukira mafoni ambiri pakati pausiku ochokera kwa ophunzira ochotsedwa ntchito, mamembala ochotsedwa, ndi makolo akulira opempha thandizo ndi upangiri. Analibe woti atembenukireko. Panthawiyo, ntchito ya SDA Kinship inkawoneka yomveka kwa ine - makamaka ndi momwe ndimamvera.
Vuto kuponderezedwa kapena kulapa wamba?
Mu nkhani ya Advent, kukopeka kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kunakumana ndi kudabwa ndi mantha. Ndi ochepa okha amene ankadziwa kuzama kwake. Chifukwa chake matenda opatsirana akuti 'Tchimo lanu ndi loipa kuposa langa' linali ponseponse, ndipo mpingo wathu unkangokhulupirira kuti nkhani ya LGBT pamapeto pake idzalephereka. Lerolino, matenda a kulephera kwa makhalidwe abwino ndi kuikidwa m’gulu la machimo afunikira kuchiritsidwa kotchedwa kulapa. Ndipo mu kulapa uku, ndikupempha aliyense kuti ayambe azindikira machimo ake. M’malo movutika ndi machimo amenewa mwakachetechete, tiyeni tisonkhane pamodzi ndi kuyenda chitsogolo mwa chikhulupiriro, ndipo koposa zonse, tikondane wina ndi mnzake (Akolose 3,13:15-XNUMX).
Pakadali pano, ena angaganize kuti ndimathandizira gulu lathu la LGBT. Ndithetsa ganizo limenelo nthawi yomweyo! Ena anganene kuti ndine wosamvera, monga kupeputsa chilakolako changa chakugonana. ZOSAKHALITSA! Malemba amanena za kutaya mtima kumene timakhala nako pamene malingaliro ndi zilakolako "zachirengedwe" izi zikutigonjetsa. Davide anapha mnzake wokhulupirika kuti amulande mkazi wake, ndipo Mariya wa Magadala mobwerezabwereza anabwerera ku moyo wake ‘wachibadwa,’ n’kukhala wogwidwa ndi ziwanda maulendo XNUMX. Inde, kukopa kwa thupi kuli kolimba kwambiri! Koma tikalapa limodzi, tidzasonyezedwa njira yopulumukira. Tili mu nyengo yatsopano
M'zaka zapitazi za 20+, momwe mpingo wa Adventist umachitira anthu a LGBT wasintha. Pakadali pano, mpingo wathu wathandizira ubale wachikondi ndi Adventist omwe amavutika ndi kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Zina mwa zoyesayesazi ndi zabwino, zina osati zochuluka, komabe pali ntchito yoti ichitidwe. Kumbali ina, kuzunzidwa kwakale komwe mamembala athu a LGBT ankadziwonera okha kwasintha kukhala chochitika cha Olimpiki. Mabala akale ndi zipsera tsopano akuweyutsidwa monyadira monga mbendera zabwino za utawaleza, pamene kwenikweni Mulungu amanyansidwa ndi kunyada ( Miyambo 8,13:16,5; XNUMX:XNUMX ).
Dera lathu tsopano likuyembekezera kuvomereza kopanda malire kwa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, polyamory (ambiri ogonana nawo) ndi mawu akuti: ›Ndisankha jenda langa, osati biology!‹ Izi ziyenera kukhala zowona malinga ndi malingaliro awo akuwoneka achisoni.
Koma kodi tingakondweretse bwanji kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha poyang’anizana ndi kupatulika ndi chiphunzitso cha Baibulo? Masiku ano, iwo omwe amakayikira mbendera za LGBT 'ukoma' kudzera mu lens la Lemba amawoneka ngati 'odana' ndi otentheka. M'malo mwake, abusa anga adandiuza kuti kukambirana za kuyitanidwa kwa Coming Out Ministries kuti alape kungavulaze kwambiri achinyamata a LGBT!
Kusinthana kwa Kinship
Mu Novembala 2018, ndidafunsidwa ndi Wapampando wa SDA Kinship chifukwa chomwe ndimakana kutumizirana mameseji ndi momwe amachitira ndi COM pamasamba ochezera. Ndinamuuza kuti zimandipweteka kwambiri kuona abale anga a Chibale akupenga: Cholinga choyambirira cha Chibale, chimene poyamba ndinkachiwona mokoma mtima, chasinthidwa kale ndi mitu ya kunyada, kufotokoza za kugonana kosagwirizana ndi Baibulo, ndi kudzikuza. Ntchito yawo tsopano ndikuwonetsa malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana monga kudzilemekeza, kukondwerera 'Mwezi Wogonana Awiri Awiri' ndi zina zosamvetsetseka ndikudziŵika kuti ndi ndani mwakukhala ndi kugonana.
Kusintha kodziwikiratu kumeneku kwa SDA Kinship - komwe kunkafuna kukambirana ndi anthu ammudzi - tsopano kwasanduka kukana poyera ndikuzunza a COM, monga momwe kalata ya Floyd Poenitz ikusonyezera. 'Oponderezedwa' akhala wopondereza. Ndipo si nthawi yoyamba (zitsanzo zikuphatikiza kuyesa kwa Kinship kuletsa zochitika za COM ku Canada, UK, Australia, etc.).
Chitsanzo Pasadena
Ine ndekha ndidawonapo kuzunzidwa kochitidwa ndi Kinship pamene COM anali ndi ulaliki wa Sabata ku Pasadena, California zaka ziwiri zapitazo.
Kinship adayesa kangapo kuti aletse chochitika ichi. Anapemphanso ogwira ntchito ku Southern California Confederation kuti akakamize m'busa wamkulu wa tchalitchi cha Pasadena kuti asiye. Zikomo Mulungu, mpingo wawung'ono uwu unali ndi msana wamphamvu wauzimu! Mwa njira iyi, COM inalimbikitsa anthu ammudzi wathu kuti apeze machiritso kuchokera ku mabala akale, akale, kuti ayime ndi omwe akufuna kusiya chikhalidwe cha LGBT ndi kukonda omwe akulimbana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, gulu la LGBT kunja linagwedeza mbendera zawo za Kunyada ndikutsutsa COM ndi zochitika za anthu ammudzi monga 'chochitika chodana'. Chibale chasungabe udindo wake, kutchula zitsanzo pama TV za anthu a LGBT omwe akuzunzidwa komanso kuphedwa. Uthenga wawo ndi wakuti aliyense amene amamvera COM amalimbikitsa chidani chopitirira. Mpaka lero, zitsanzozi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati mkangano wa uthenga wa utawaleza wa Kinship kuti utsatire malingaliro athu komanso kukana kulalikira kwa COM. Izi ndizomwe zimayitanira kukana malingaliro ake ndikubwera pamtanda. Iyi ndiye ndewu yomwe tilimo.
Choipa kwambiri, SDA Kinship imanenanso kuti COM, ndipo ndithudi aliyense amene akufuna kusiya gulu la LGBT, akuchita chifukwa cha kupwetekedwa mtima kwakukulu kotero kuti ali wolumala kwambiri. Kinship nthawi zonse amatchula chitsanzo chautumiki woyipa wa Colin Cook wolimbikitsa machiritso otembenuka mtima kudzera m'zodabwitsa, zosagwirizana ndi Baibulo. Njira zosinthira izi zimawalumikiza ku COM. Imelo ya Floyd Poenitz inalinso ndi mawu abodzawa.
Nkhani yanga yanga
Ndikufuna kugawana ndi mpingo wanga wokondedwa kuti si onse omwe amachoka ku LGBT achita izi chifukwa cha zoopsa ndi zowawa. Ndakhaladi moyo wathunthu malinga ndi miyezo ya LGBT. Ndili wowoneka bwino, ndinali ndi galimoto ya Mercedes, ndinali ndi nyumba ku Hollywood Hills ndi ofesi ku Beverly Hills. Ndinali ndi nyumba yabwino kumapeto kwa sabata ku Palm Springs ndipo ndinali ndi malo ambiri obwereketsa. Ndalama sizinali zolimba. Usiku uliwonse ndimabwera kunyumba kwa mwamuna wanga wachikondi yemwe amandikonda. Mnzanga wa bizinesi, antchito anzanga, odwala, mabwenzi, abambo, ndi azing'ono anga anali achikondi ndi ochirikiza. Ndinali kalasi yoyamba gay kukhala ndi maloto utawaleza. Koma moyo umenewu sunanditsogolere kukhala pa ubale wakuya ndi Yesu. Koma m’malo mwake! Pomaliza nditayankha kuitana kwa Mzimu Woyera, zonse zomwe zidawoneka ngati zataya tanthauzo lake. Kugonana kwanga sikunalinso kofunikira kwa ine. Sindinaganizirepo za chithandizo cha kutembenuka mtima, komanso sindinafunsepo za izo. Pamene Mzimu Woyera unanditsogolera kunditulutsa mu dziko la LGBT, ndinazindikira kuti iyi ndi NJIRA YOMWEYO imene munthu aliyense amadutsamo mosasamala kanthu za zomwe akulimbana nazo. "Kutembenuka" kwanga kudachitika ndi Mzimu Woyera, ndipo adasinthanso ena. Poyamba ndinkaganiza kuti ndili ndekhandekha. Koma pamene maso anga anatsegulidwa, ndinazindikira kuti alipo ambiri onga ine. Chiwerengero cha 'anthu ngati ife' chikukulirakulira ndipo COM ikuwawonetsa kuti sali okha.
Mikangano yapachibale
Mitu ya Kinship ndi yosangalatsa komanso yokopa. Kudzipatula, kuzunzidwa komanso kudzipha kwa achinyamata akudandaula pa tsamba lake komanso pamasamba ochezera. Chibale chimamaliza kuti ngati sitivomereza moyo wa kugonana kwa utawaleza kwathunthu, ana athu adzipha okha.
Awa ndi mauthenga amphamvu kwambiri kwa omwe sanadziwitsidwe. Nditha kupitiliza kusanthula kalata ya Floyd Poenitz ndi Kinship mantras mfundo ndi mfundo kudzera m'mabaibulo, zamoyo, ziwerengero komanso zamalingaliro, koma izi zachitika kale (Onani comingoutministries.org, knowhislove.org):
Kodi ndiko kutha kwa mkangano?
Ayi! Ife mwachiwonekere sitikukhalanso mu chikhalidwe chowona chozikidwa pa Lemba. Mfundo zasinthidwa m'malo ndi malingaliro.
Kotero ndikufuna kufunsa mpingo wanga ndi utsogoleri wake mwachindunji: Kodi mungakonde kukambirana moona mtima ndi 'anthu ngati ine', ndi anthu omwe asiya malingaliro awo kuti atsatire Mzimu Woyera? Ndi anthu ngati ine amene adzionera okha mabodza a dziko lolonjezedwa la utawaleza ndi kugonana kwaulere.
Zomwe zimadetsa nkhawa SDA Kinship
Ndiye nchifukwa chiyani SDA Kinship ikuvutitsidwa ndi Coming Out Ministries? Chifukwa anthu ambiri akale a LGBT ngati ine akuchoka ku gay, bi ndi trans.
Chikhalidwe cha LGBTQ chadzaza ndi chiwerewere komanso maubwenzi ambiri olephera. Chikhalidwe cha LGBTQ chimayenda bwino pakukhutiritsa 'malingaliro' kudzera munjira zosagwirizana ndi Baibulo komanso zoletsedwa zogonana. Chifukwa COM sichilimbikitsa kutembenuka mtima, Kinship amachita mantha. Chibale chimapanga chithunzi chokongola, kusonyeza kuti ndi kusakaniza koyenera kwa kuvomerezedwa ndi kusilira, mamembala a LGBT adzachita bwino mkati mwa Adventism. Koma kukhulupirira izo zimatengera chikhulupiriro chakhungu, chakupha. Malo a LGBT ali ndi malamulo ake. Mpaka pano, mpingo uliwonse wotsimikizira LGBT wapeza kuti malamulowa sakusintha.
Funso limodzi: Kodi mukudziwa momwe amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhalira? Kodi mungalole ana anu aakazi kufotokoza zakugonana kwawo momasuka komanso momasuka monga momwe abambo amachitira mdera la LGBT? Mawonekedwe a LGBT samagwirizana ndi omwe amakhala nawo, koma amawasintha. Ndimalankhula zomwe zandichitikira.
Kodi Lemba limati chiyani?
Mikangano yazaumulungu ndi ya m'Baibulo yokhudza kugonana idzapitirirabe. Pakuti kumene mdima waloledwa kulowa, chisokonezo chimalamulira. Kugonana kunja kwa banja logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikuloledwa m'Baibulo. Mtsutso wa ochirikiza LGBT ngwakuti, ‘Sindingakhulupirire kuti Mulungu wachikondi angatikane kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako zathu zachibadwa zakugonana!’ Komabe, maganizo ameneŵa nthaŵi zonse amandivutitsa maganizo, ndipo ayenera kuvutitsa aliyense. Ndawerengapo akatswiri ambiri azaumulungu omwe amayesa kukana ndi kufotokoza vesi lililonse la m'Baibulo pankhaniyi.
Ngakhale kuti ananditsimikizira kuti 'chikondi ndicho chikondi' ndiponso kuti kugonana kwanga 'kwachibadwa' kunali kwachibadwa ndiponso kunaperekedwa ndi Mulungu, kuti azindikonda ndi kutsimikiziridwa, sindinavomereze mfundo zimenezo. Chimene chiri 'chirengedwe' sichangwiro kapena chabwino kapena chofunika; Nyama zimadyana, mphepo yamkuntho imawononga, ndipo strychnine imachokera ku zomera. Zonsezi ndi 'zachilengedwe'; chilengedwe chimabuula pansi pa kulemera kwa uchimo! ( Aroma 8,22:XNUMX )
Kumenyana sikudzatha
Kusiya zochitika za LGBT kumbuyo sikunatanthauze kutha kwa zovutazo chifukwa chakuti ndinapereka moyo wanga kwa Ambuye. Poyamba sindinkadziwa ngati ndingasiyedi moyo umenewu potsatira Yesu. Koma pamene ubale wanga ndi Yesu ukuyandikira, dziko la LGBT ndi moyo wanga wam'mbuyomu zidakhala zosasangalatsa komanso zachilendo kwa ine. Kodi Yesu sananene kuti ngati chiwalo cha thupi chikatiwononga, kuli bwino [mophiphiritsa] kusiya nacho ( Mateyu 5,29:XNUMX )? Inde, Mulungu wathu wachikondi amatiuza kukana zizoloŵezi zathu zachibadwa m’malo mozilola kutiwononga ndi kuphonya muyaya.
Pamene tchalitchi changa cha Adventist chinapanga phwando la kunyada kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pa Sabata lina masana, ndinatsala pang’ono kukomoka. Anthu onga ine sanaitanidwe, ndithudi, chifukwa kudzikana ndi kutsatira Yesu sikunali kukondweretsedwa, koma kunyada mu malingaliro aumwini ndi mchitidwe wa kugonana wa munthu. Komabe, izi ndi zosemphana ndi Mulungu wathu wachikondi ndi chifuniro kwa ife.
Coming Out Ministries
Nditangomva za Coming Out Ministries ndinali wofunitsitsa koma wosamala. Ndinkadziwa bwino nkhani ya Colin Cook yomwe inalephera kutembenuza utumiki. Ndinaganiza molakwika kuti COM ndi ntchito yotere. Koma mzimu woyera unapitirizabe kundinyengerera mpaka ndinaganiza zofufuza kuti COM inali chiyani kwenikweni. Nditayimba foni kwanthawi yayitali ndi oyambitsa awiri a Coming Out Ministries, ndidawonera kanemayo Ulendo Wasokonezedwa pa. (Izo zinali zisanachitike chochitika cha Pasadena.)
Nditakhala pagulu ndi anthu opitilira 700, ndidamva kulira kokakamira komanso kuvomereza kwachete kuchokera kuholoyo pomwe mamembala a COM mufilimuyi amafotokozera nkhani zawo zaufulu. Usiku umenewo, ndinapita kunyumba nditazindikira kuti sindiyeneranso kuvala chizindikiro cha utawaleza, ngakhale kuti gulu la LGBT lonyoza linanena kuti sizingatheke. Ndinazindikira kuti mfundo si yakuti mwamuna 'mwachibadwa' amasiya kukhala gay ndipo tsopano akunena kuti 'ndiwowongoka'. Ndi za kupulumutsidwa. Ndilo tagi yokha yomwe imawerengedwa. Zinali ngati mamba agwa m’maso mwanga. Kuphunzitsidwa ndi zovuta zonse zomwe ndimayenera kupirira kuti ndivale monyadira kuti 'gay' zinalibenso mphamvu pa ine.
Ufulu ku chikhulupiriro - popanda njira zothandizira
Lero, sindinganene kuti ndine wopanda kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma kukopa komweko kwatha mphamvu kuyambira pamenepo. Lingaliro la ufulu weniweni linadzaza mtima wanga ndipo ndinadziŵa kuti ndinali mwana wa Mulungu, cholengedwa Chake chosankhidwa. Tsopano ndinali womasuka kwenikweni kutsatira mpulumutsi wanga ndikusiya dziko la LGBT. Mawu a Yesu akuti, ‘Dzikane wekha, ndipo unditsate,’ anaomba m’manja mwamphamvu mumtima mwanga. Inde, zimagwira ntchito: Ndikhoza kudzikana ndekha ndikutsatira Yesu (Mateyu 16,24:25-XNUMX) popanda kutembenuka mtima.
Kodi 'anthu ngati ine' amakhala 'owongoka'? Kunena zoona, sindisamala. Sizokhudza kusinthidwa pogonana - ndi za kupulumutsidwa. Ndi za kusiya moyo wachiwerewere komanso wosokonekera mwauzimu. Simungapemphere kukhala gay. Koma amene akulimbana ndi kukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha angapeze chiwombolo panthaŵi ya chiyeso.
Ntchito ya anthu ammudzi
Tchalitchi chathu chiyenera kukhala malo othawirako kuti anthu okhudzidwa apeze chilimbikitso. Ena a ife tidzatha kulowa m'maukwati ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ambiri sangatero. Koma zimenezo zilibe kanthu. Chofunikira nchakuti onse asonyezedwa njira ya Mulungu woona ndi wamoyo, njira ya chiyero ndi kuchira. Ngati ndikhala moyo wanga wonse ngati munthu wosakwatiwa yemwe wasiya moyo wake wakale wa LGBT, kodi mungandilandire ndikuyimirira pafupi ndi ine? Kodi mungandipatse mpando patebulo lanu? Kodi ndingathe kugawana zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi Mulungu? Kapena inenso ndidzaletsedwa kulankhula?
Kodi chikondi chenicheni chimasonyezedwa bwanji?
Nditha kupereka mapiri a data kutsimikizira kuti pamtima pa zoyesayesa za Kinship ndi zotsutsana zabodza. Iwo amati ana ambiri amayesa kudzipha pamene tchalitchi chimawakaniza poyera moyo wachiwerewere. Iwo amanena kuti Mulungu anapatsa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ufulu wauzimu wosonyeza kugonana kwa munthu payekha.
Kodi mwezi wa Bisexuality umakondwerera bwanji ndendende? Ndikhoza kupereka umboni weniweni wakuti kudzipha kwenikweni ndi matenda a amuna oyera azaka zapakati, komanso kuti amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amapeza ndalama zapakati ndi zapamwamba omwe amayenda m'magulu ogonana ndi amuna okhaokha samakhala ndi chiwerengero chapamwamba kwambiri cha kudzipha, amakhalanso ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zodzipha. Kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo - komanso kuledzera. Iwo amaposa ziwerengero za maubwenzi osweka ndi kusakhutira (ngakhale kukhazikitsidwa kwa ukwati wa gay). Akatswiri a zamaganizo amatcha izi "Dutch Paradox".
Zaka XNUMX amene anakulira ndi makhalidwe olekerera kugonana ndi chikhulupiriro chakuti munthu akhoza kusankha kuti ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi alinso ndi ziŵerengero zodzipha kwambiri. Pamene zofuna za gulu la LGBT zikutsatiridwa ndi anthu, m'pamene zimaipiraipira ndipo zofuna zawo zimawonekeratu. Anzanga ambiri a LGBT ndi Kinship mosakayikira adzayesa kukayikira uthengawu, koma ndikuyembekezera kukambirana. Ine ndimakhulupirira mu nkhani yotseguka.
Mwinamwake ndidzaimbidwa mlandu wopanda ulemu pa zomwe gulu la LGBT lavutika m'mbuyomo m'manja mwa mpingo wozizira. Koma mosiyana ndi mmene zilili.
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Ndinawerenga buku la Masalimo kwa mwamuna wina wotsala pang'ono kufa ataphimbidwa ndi Kaposi's sarcoma kuchokera kumutu mpaka kumapazi pamene phokoso la imfa yake litadzaza chipindacho. Ndinamugwira mnzanga uku akulira momvetsa chisoni chifukwa cha matenda ake a HIV. Tsiku lililonse ndinkachezera mnzanga wina wa m’gulu la anthu odzipha amene ankadandaula kuti achibale ake sakufunanso kumuona. Ndimakhalanso ndi zowawa zanga zakale. ndikudziwa ululu uwu Tinakhala mabwenzi apamtima kwa zaka zambiri.
Koma zomverera pambali; Nazi zina zodabwitsa kuchokera ku banja langa lampingo. Pali anthu osachepera asanu ndi limodzi akale a LGBT omwe ali pafupi ndi ine omwe azindikira kuti chikhalidwe cha LGBT si utawaleza wonse. Mwamufulatira. Nonse nokha, popanda chitsogozo cha "kutembenuka mtima", kokha ndi chitsogozo cha Mzimu Woyera. Ndikayendera madera ena, ndimakumana ndi anthu ambiri omwe atalikirana ndi moyo uno. Mwachiwonekere izi zikuchitika pa chikhalidwe chonse chakumadzulo pakali pano. Tchalitchi pambuyo pa tchalitchi chimene ndimapitako, ndimakumana nawo kulikonse - ndipo onse amanena chinthu chomwecho: 'Ndinkaganiza kuti ndine ndekha.'
Mafunso kwa Adventist
Abale okondedwa, kodi COM ndi anthu ngati ine angakhale ndi bwalo loti tikambirane? Kodi 'anthu ngati ife' omwe ali ndi zochitika pazochitika za gay anganene nkhani yathu 'yotuluka'? Kodi tingatengere umboni wathu wa m'mene Mzimu Woyera anatipulumutsira ife ku zokometsera zauchimo ndi m'manja mwa Mesiya wokhululuka, wachikondi, ndi wosandulika? Kodi ndingafotokoze nkhani ya mwamuna ndi mkazi wachikulire amene anasiya moyo wawo wakale, n’kubatizidwa ndipo samadzionanso ngati amuna kapena akazi okhaokha? Kapena wolimbikitsa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, yemwe kale anali 'Adadi Wachikopa' yemwe tsopano anakwatiwa ndi mkazi wachikondi, ali ndi ana awiri ndipo amayendetsa gulu la amuna omwe akufuna njira yopulumukira?
Kodi ndingakudziwitseni kwa gay mankhwala osokoneza bongo amene anapeza Ambuye ndi kupereka moyo wake wonse kwa Yesu? Kumanani ndi yemwe kale anali woyendetsa magalimoto ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha yemwe adafika pamtunda pa nthawi yachisoni ndipo akufuna kuuza dziko lapansi kuti pali njira yabwinoko! Kodi ndingakuuzeni za membala wakale wa Chibale yemwe adakhulupirira mabodza onse omwe dziko lapansi lidamuwuza, koma kulota kuti amubweretse kulapa ndi phazi la mtanda? Ndikufuna kuchita zonsezi! Chifukwa ndine wotsiriza!
Koma munthu aliyense wamtengo wapatali, wopulumutsidwa akhoza - ndipo akufuna - kunena nkhani yake! Zimene anthu ngati ife amafanana n’zakuti sasamala kuti tinabadwa choncho kapena ayi. Zoona zake n’zakuti aliyense anabadwa ‘motero’. Ndi chifukwa chake Yesu anabwera kudzatipulumutsa kwa ife tokha.
Okondedwa anthu ammudzi, ndikukupemphani kuti muthetse bata lomwe lidagwira Israeli atafunsidwa mbali yomwe ayenera kumbali. Dzimasuleni nokha ku kulemala kwa nkhani ndi malingaliro osagwirizana ndi Baibulo! Kutsutsana ndi omwe amaloza ku malingaliro a Baibulo, monga ma COM, monga gwero la mavuto a Israeli. Israeli ankasowa chizindikiro chauzimu kuti awuke. Ine ndekha ndawona moto wa Mzimu Woyera kuchokera kumwamba ukusintha mtima wanga wa mwala kukhala magome a thupi, omwe tsopano apangidwa ndi Mawu. Kodi inunso mungakonde kutero? Kodi anthu ngati ine ndi Coming Out Ministries angalankhule za izi? Timalankhula zimene zatichitikira.
Imvani nkhani zathu za chiombolo ndi kubwezeretsedwa, komanso momwe tinapunthwa ndi kugwa. Kodi mungaime pafupi nafe, kupemphera nafe, ndi kutithandiza kubwereranso panjira yopapatiza? Uthenga wathu ndi wakuti Yesu akubwera ndipo adzakonza zonse.
Ichi ndiye chiyembekezo chomwe chimayaka m'mitima yathu."
odzichepetsa pa phazi la mtanda,
Greg Cox
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