Nthawi zambiri mu maphunziro timayesa kupeza kulinganiza koyenera pakati pa kuwolowa manja ndi kukhwima, mwachitsanzo, njira yoyenera. Koma mafunso osiyana kwambiri ndi ofunikira. Ndi Ellen White

Ndi abambo ochepa omwe ali oyenerera udindo wakulera ana, popeza iwo eni amafunikirabe kulera kotheratu kuti aphunzire kudziletsa, kuleza mtima ndi chifundo. Pokhapokha pamene iwo eni ali ndi mikhalidwe imeneyi m’pamene amatha kulera bwino ana awo.

Kodi kukhudzika kwa makhalidwe kwa abambo kungadzutse bwanji kotero kuti azindikire ndi kuona mopepuka ntchito yawo kwa ana awo? Nkhaniyi ndi yofunika kwambiri komanso yosangalatsa chifukwa chakuti m’tsogolomu dziko likuyenda bwino. Tikufuna kukumbutsanso abambo ndi amayi udindo waukulu womwe atenga pobweretsa ana padziko lapansi. Uwu ndi udindo umene imfa yokha ingawatulutse. M’zaka zoyambirira za moyo wa ana, mtolo waukulu ndi chisamaliro cha ana zimakhala kwa amayi, koma ngakhale pamenepo atate ayenera kumchirikiza ndi uphungu ndi chichirikizo, kumulimbikitsa kudalira chikondi chake chachikulu ndi kumuthandiza mmene angathere. .

Kodi zofunika zanga zili kuti?

Chomwe chiyenera kukhala chofunika kwambiri kwa abambo ndi ntchito yomwe ali nayo kwa ana ake. Sayenera kuwakankhira pambali kuti apeze chuma kapena kukhala ndi udindo wapamwamba m’maso mwa dziko. Kunena zoona, kukhala ndi chuma ndi ulemu kaŵirikaŵiri kumabweretsa kulekana pakati pa mwamuna ndi banja lake, ndipo zimenezi zimamulepheretsa kukhala ndi mphamvu pa iwo. Ngati cholinga cha atate ndi chakuti ana ake akulitse makhalidwe ogwirizana, kubweretsa ulemu kwa iye ndi kubweretsa madalitso ku dziko, ndiye kuti ayenera kuchita zinthu zodabwitsa. Mulungu amamuimba iye mlandu pa izo. Pachiweruzo chomaliza, Mulungu adzamufunsa kuti: Kodi ana amene ndakuikizirani ali kuti? Kodi mwawaukitsa kuti andiyamikire? Kodi moyo wake ukuwala padziko lapansi ngati tiara wokongola? Kodi adzalowa muyaya kundilemekeza kosatha?

Ana anga ali ndi makhalidwe ati? - Kufotokoza moleza mtima ndi mwanzeru kuposa kulanga

Ana ena ali ndi mphamvu zamakhalidwe abwino. Ali ndi mphamvu zokwanira zolamulira maganizo ndi zochita zawo. Komabe, ndi ana ena, zilakolako zakuthupi n'zosatheka kuziletsa. Kuti athetse mikhalidwe yosiyana imeneyi imene kaŵirikaŵiri imapezeka m’banja limodzi, atate, mofanana ndi amayi, amafunikira kuleza mtima ndi nzeru zochokera kwa Mthandizi Waumulungu. Simungathe kuchita zambiri ngati mulanga ana chifukwa cha zolakwa zawo. Zowonjezereka zingapezeke mwa kuwalongosolera kupusa ndi kuipa kwa tchimo lawo, kumvetsetsa zikhoterero zawo zobisika, ndi kuchita chirichonse chothekera kuwatsogolera ku njira yolondola.

Maola amene abambo ambiri amathera akusuta [mwachitsanzo. Ä.] iyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito bwino pophunzira njira yolerera ya Mulungu ndi kuphunzira zambiri kuchokera ku njira zaumulungu. Zimene Yesu anaphunzitsa zimatsegula njira zatsopano zoti Atate afikire anthu pamtima komanso kuwaphunzitsa zinthu zofunika kwambiri zokhudza choonadi ndi chilungamo. Yesu anagwiritsa ntchito zinthu zodziŵika bwino m’chilengedwe posonyeza ndi kuonetsa chidwi cha ntchito yake. Anatenga maphunziro othandiza pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ntchito za anthu ndi machitidwe awo a tsiku ndi tsiku.

Nthawi yokambirana ndi chilengedwe

Ngati atate kaŵirikaŵiri amasonkhanitsa ana ake kwa iye, angalunjikitse malingaliro awo m’njira zamakhalidwe ndi zachipembedzo mmene kuunika kumaŵalitsira. Ayenera kuphunzira zikhoterero zawo zosiyanasiyana, zomwe zingawatengere maganizo ndi kuyesetsa kuwafikira m’njira zosavuta. Ena amafikiridwa bwino ndi ulemu ndi kuopa Mulungu; ena amafikiridwa mosavuta mwa kuwasonyeza zodabwitsa ndi zinsinsi za chilengedwe, ndi kugwirizana kwake kodabwitsa ndi kukongola kwake, zimene zimalankhula ku mitima yawo za Mlengi wa kumwamba ndi dziko lapansi ndi za zinthu zonse zodabwitsa zimene anazilenga.

Nthawi yopanga nyimbo ndikumvera nyimbo

Ana ambiri odalitsidwa ndi mphatso ya nyimbo kapena kukonda nyimbo amalandira zomveka zomwe zimakhala moyo wonse pamene kumverako kumagwiritsidwa ntchito mwanzeru kuwalangiza m'chikhulupiriro. Kukhoza kulongosoledwa kwa iwo kuti ali ngati mkangano m’chigwirizano chaumulungu cha chilengedwe, monga chida chachilendo chimene chimamveka chosamvana pamene iwo sali m’modzi ndi Mulungu, ndi kuti iwo amadzetsa zopweteka zambiri kwa Mulungu kuposa zankhanza; nyimbo zosemphana ndi zomwe zimamveka kwa iwo omwe amamva bwino.

Dziwani kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi ndi mafanizo

Ana ena amafikiridwa bwino kwambiri ndi zithunzi zopatulika zosonyeza zochitika za moyo ndi utumiki wa Yesu. Mwanjira imeneyi, chowonadi chingakhomerezedwe m’maganizo mwawo m’mitundu yowoneka bwino kotero kuti sichidzafafanizidwanso konse. Tchalitchi cha Roma Katolika chimadziŵa bwino zimenezi ndipo chimakopa chidwi cha anthu mwa kukopa ziboliboli ndi zojambulajambula. Ngakhale kuti sitigwirizana ndi kulambira zifaniziro zoletsedwa ndi lamulo la Mulungu, timakhulupirira kuti n’koyenera kupezerapo mwayi pa chikondi cha ana cha pafupifupi padziko lonse cha zithunzithunzi n’kukhazikitsa makhalidwe abwino m’maganizo mwawo. Zithunzi zokongola zosonyeza mfundo zazikulu za makhalidwe abwino za m’Baibulo zimamanga uthenga wabwino m’mitima yawo. Mpulumutsi wathu anasonyezanso chiphunzitso chake choyera kudzera m’zifaniziro za m’ntchito zolengedwa za Mulungu.

Kudzutsa kuzindikira kuli bwino kuposa kukakamiza - ndi bwino kupewa zopinga

Sizingatheke kukhazikitsa lamulo lachitsulo lokakamiza aliyense m’banja kuti apite kusukulu imodzi. Ndi bwino kuphunzitsa mofatsa ndi kukopa chikumbumtima cha achinyamata pamene maphunziro apadera akufunika kuperekedwa. Zatsimikizira kukhala lingaliro labwino kuyankha zomwe mumakonda komanso mawonekedwe anu. Kulera kofanana m’banja n’kofunika, koma panthaŵi imodzimodziyo zosoŵa zosiyanasiyana za anthu a m’banjamo ziyenera kuganiziridwa. Monga makolo, fufuzani mmene mungapeŵere kupanga ana anu kukhala okangana, kukwiyitsa, kapena kusonkhezera kupanduka mwa iwo. M’malo mwake, zimasonkhezera chidwi chawo ndi kuwasonkhezera kuyesetsa kukhala ndi nzeru zapamwamba ndi ungwiro wa khalidwe. Zimenezi zingatheke ndi mzimu waubwenzi ndi woleza mtima wachikristu. Makolo amadziŵa zofooka za ana awo ndipo angaletse mwamphamvu koma mokoma mtima zikhoterero zawo zauchimo.

Kukhala maso m'malo okhulupirirana

Makolo, makamaka atate, ayenera kusamala kuti anawo asamuone ngati wapolisi wofufuza, kuyang'anira ndi kutsutsa zochita zawo zonse, okonzeka nthawi iliyonse kulowererapo ndi kuwalanga pa cholakwa chilichonse. Khalidwe la atate liyenera kusonyeza ana pa mpata uliwonse kuti chifukwa chowongolera ndi mtima wodzala ndi chikondi kwa ana. Mukafika pamenepa, mwapindula zambiri. Bambo ayenera kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zikhumbo zaumunthu ndi zofooka za ana ake, chifundo chake kwa wochimwa ndi chisoni chake kwa wochimwa chiyenera kukhala chachikulu kuposa chisoni chimene ana angachimve kaamba ka zolakwa zawo. Pamene abwezanso mwana wake ku njira yolondola, adzaimva, ndipo ngakhale mtima wouma khosi udzafewa.

Khalani wonyamula machimo monga Yesu

Bambo, monga wansembe komanso amene amamanga banja pamodzi, ayenera kutenga malo a Yesu mmene angathere. Ngakhale kuti iye ndi wosalakwa, amavutika chifukwa cha ochimwa! Apirire zowawa ndi mtengo wa zolakwa za ana ake! Ndipo amavutika kwambiri kuposa mkaziyo pamene akumulanga!

"... ana amatengera zonse zomwe mumachita"

Koma kodi tate angaphunzitse bwanji ana ake kugonjetsa zizoloŵezi zoipa pamene aona kuti sangathe kudziletsa? Iye amataya chisonkhezero chake chonse pa iwo pamene akwiya kapena mopanda chilungamo, kapena pamene pali chirichonse chosonyeza kuti iye ndi kapolo wa chizoloŵezi choipa. Ana amayang'anitsitsa mosamala ndikupeza mfundo zomveka. Lamulo liyenera kutsatiridwa ndi machitidwe achitsanzo kuti likhale logwira mtima. Kodi ndimotani mmene atate ayenera kukhalira wokhoza kusunga ulemu wake wamakhalidwe pamaso pa ana ake atcheru pamene akudya zosonkhezera zovulaza kapena kugwera m’chizoloŵezi china choipa? Ngati amadzinenera kuti ali ndi udindo wapadera pankhani ya kusuta fodya, ana ake aamuna angamvenso kuti ali ndi ufulu wofananawo. Zingakhale kuti samangotengera fodya monga bambo awo, komanso kugwera m’chizoloŵezi choledzeretsa chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti kumwa vinyo ndi mowa sikuli koipa kuposa kusuta fodya. Choncho mwanayo aponda panjira ya woledzerayo chifukwa chitsanzo cha bambo ake chinamuchititsa kutero.

Kodi ndimateteza bwanji ana anga kuti asamadzikonde?

Ngozi za unyamata ndi zambiri. M’chitaganya chathu cholemera muli ziyeso zosaŵerengeka za kukhutiritsa chikhumbo. M’mizinda yathu, anyamata amakumana ndi chiyeso chimenechi tsiku lililonse. Iwo amagwera m’maonekedwe onyenga a chiyeso ndi kukhutiritsa chikhumbo chawo popanda ngakhale kulingalira za chenicheni chakuti angavulaze thanzi lawo. Kaŵirikaŵiri achichepere amagonja ku chikhulupiriro chakuti chimwemwe chagona muufulu wopanda malire, m’kusangalala ndi zosangalatsa zoletsedwa ndi kuseweretsa maliseche mwadyera. Kenako amapeza chimwemwe chimenechi powononga thanzi lawo lakuthupi, m’maganizo ndi m’makhalidwe ndipo pamapeto pake chimene chimatsala ndi kuwawidwa mtima.

Ndi kofunika chotani nanga kuti atate asamale zizolowezi za ana ake aamuna ndi a anzawo. Choyamba, tate mwiniyo ayenera kutsimikizira kuti sali kapolo wa chilakolako choipa chomwe chingachepetse mphamvu yake pa ana ake. Ayenera kuletsa milomo yake kuti isagwirizane ndi zolimbikitsa zovulaza.

Anthu angathe kuchita zambiri potumikira Mulungu ndi anthu anzawo akakhala ndi thanzi labwino kusiyana ndi pamene akudwala ndiponso akuvutika ndi ululu. Kusuta fodya ndi mowa komanso kusadya bwino kumayambitsa matenda ndi kuvutika zomwe zimatilepheretsa kukhala dalitso ku dziko. Chirengedwe kupondedwa sichimadzidziwitsa nthawi zonse ndi machenjezo osamala, koma nthawi zina ndi ululu waukulu ndi kufooka kwakukulu. Thanzi lathu lakuthupi limavutika nthaŵi zonse pamene tigonjera ku zilakolako zosakhala zachibadwa; ubongo wathu umataya kumveka komwe kumafunikira kuti uchite ndi kusiyanitsa.

Khalani maginito!

Koposa zonse, tateyo amafunikira maganizo omveka bwino, okangalika, kuzindikira msanga, kulingalira mwabata, nyonga yakuthupi kaamba ka ntchito zake zolemetsa, ndipo makamaka chithandizo cha Mulungu m’kugwirizanitsa bwino zochita zake. Chotero iye ayenera kukhala ndi moyo wodziletsa kotheratu, kuyenda m’kuwopa Mulungu ndi kumvera lamulo lake, kukhala ndi diso la kukongola pang’ono ndi chifundo cha moyo, kuchirikiza ndi kulimbikitsa mkazi wake, kukhala chitsanzo changwiro kwa ana ake aamuna ndi phungu ndi munthu waulamuliro. kwa ana ake aakazi. Ndiponso, m’pofunika kuti aime muulemu wamakhalidwe abwino a munthu wopanda ukapolo wa zizolowezi ndi zilakolako zoipa. Ndi njira iyi yokha imene angakwaniritsire udindo wopatulika wa kuphunzitsa ana ake kaamba ka moyo wapamwamba.

Kumapeto: Zizindikiro za Nthawi, December 20, 1877