Ukuba ulikhoboka - kwaye zininzi izinto eziluthayo - eli nqaku liza kwenza umdla kuwe. Kuba oko kusebenzayo kumlutha wokuqala kunokudluliselwa. Enoba ngaboni ngekota okanye aboni bexesha elide, enoba ngabona ngamathub’ athile, izinxibo okanye aboni, wonk’ ubani umenywa ukuba acinge ngobomi benkululeko nolonwabo lokwenene. NguKai Mester
Ngo-Agasti 2013, inqaku lika-Ulf Röder (umshumayeli eLüneburg) elinesihloko esithi »Ukwabelana ngesondo njengoko uThixo akufunayo - umthwalo kunye nolonwabo, intshiseko kunye nokuhlaziya« yavela kwiphephancwadi yolutsha yama-Adventist. Yayinezicatshulwa ezibini ezithetha ngokuphulula amalungu esini ezazikwenza uhlale phantsi uze uphawule.
Ndicaphula: “Abantu belizwe lethu batshata kade kakhulu, okanye ngamaxesha athile obomi babo, okanye hayi kwaphela. Kodwa isidingo sokwabelana ngesondo sisavuka malunga neminyaka eyi-12. Ngaloo ndlela umnqweno wesini ufikelela incopho yawo kwinqanaba lobomi apho naluphi na uhlobo lweqhina lomtshato lubonakala luselula kakhulu kwinkcubeko yethu. Ngoko yintoni enokwenzeka? Umntu unokufikelela kude kangakanani ukuze anelise imfuno yesini? Indlela yokuqala yayikukwahlulwa kwesondo somtshato kunye nesondo sodwa (i-masturbation). Ngaphambili, ukuphulula amaphambili kwakujongwa njengesono. Kamva kwacaca ukuba asikokuphulula amaphambili okusahlula kuThixo (njengesono), kodwa kunoko iingcinga zethu ezingcolileyo. Ngoko ukuba wedwa ngokuqinisekileyo yindlela yokufumana inkululeko ngokwesondo. Nangona ayizisi ikhaya, akukho kwaneliseka, akukho nzaliseko okanye ukhuseleko, kodwa isiqabu.
Nazi ezinye izinto ezingavisisaniyo neBhayibhile eziphathelele isini ngaphambi komtshato endingayi kuthetha ngazo kweli nqaku, eziya kufikelela incopho yazo kwisigqibo esilandelayo: “Isini sisipho sikaThixo, incopho yobuchule Bakhe bokudala. Ukwabelana ngesondo kungena kakuhle kulwalamano lomtshato. UThixo ukunqwenelela isiseko esikhuselekileyo, ikhaya nemvakalelo yonqabiseko. Ukuba usabelana ngesondo ngaphandle koku, ngoko ke uThixo usesondele kuwe kwaye uhamba nawe ngoxanduva, intlonipho kunye nekhaya."
UEllen White, umama owaseka ihlelo lethu, ogqalwa luninzi lwama-Adventist njengomprofetikazi nomthunywa kaThixo, nobhali lwakhe lugqalwa ngabaninzi njengombhalo ophefumlelweyo ongekho semthethweni, uye wathetha amazwi ahluke kakhulu kumbandela wokuphulula amalungu esini. Nali isiqwengana:
"Ndixhalabile ngabantwana kunye nolutsha oluzonakalisa ngokwabo ngezenzo zodwa kweli hlabathi kunye nehlabathi elizayo." (Isibheno kooMama, 5)
Emva koko ubhala ngokubanzi ngemiphumo emibi yokuzanelisa ngokwesondo kwimpilo yomzimba, impumelelo yengqondo, ulungelelwaniso lwengqondo, imilinganiselo yokuziphatha, ngokunxulumene nesini esahlukileyo ngokunxulumene nokwakhiwa kosapho, ubuntununtunu bomoya, kunye nobomi bokholo.
"Oomama, unobangela omkhulu wezi zifo zomzimba, zengqondo, kunye nokuziphatha ngumbono ofihlakeleyo ovuselela iminqweno, uqhubela ukucinga kwifiva, kwaye ubangele ukuwa kwemiqobo yokuziphatha." (iphe. 8) "Itshabalalisa injongo ephezulu, umzamo onyanisekileyo, kunye nomnqweno wokwakha isimilo esihle sonqulo." (iphe. 9)
“Nina bomama, aninako ukulumka kakhulu ekukhuseleni abantwana benu ekufundeni imikhwa engafanelekanga... Abamelwane banokuvumela abantwana babo ukuba bangene endlwini yenu, bachithe ubusuku nemini nabantwana benu... Ukuze bangonakalisi oonyana bam. , andizange ndibavumele ukuba balale ebhedini enye okanye kwigumbi elinye namanye amakhwenkwe.« (iphepha 11)
Emva koko ubhala ngendlela yokukhusela abantwana bakabani kwiimpembelelo ezimbi, indlela yokubanika imisebenzi enemveliso nengokwenyama ebalungiselela ubomi bamva.
“Sifanele sifundise abantwana bethu ukuba baqhelisele imikhwa yokungazibandezi ... ukuba balawule inkanuko baze babeke phantsi kokhokelo lwamandla engqondo nawokuziphatha.” (iphe. 19)
Uhlabela mgama echaza indlela yokunceda abantwana bakho ngovakalelo, ukuba sele bewele kulo mkhwa, ukuba baphume kuwo.
“Obu bubi ndabonakaliswa kum njengento elizothe emehlweni kaThixo (embonweni). Naluphi na ubizo oluphakamileyo lomntu, lowo ukulungeleyo ukubotshelelwa ukwanelisa inkanuko yenyama akanakuba ngumKristu.” (iphe. 25) Le yintetho eyomeleleyo kodwa ecacileyo.
“Abaninzi abazi ukuba le mikhwa isisono kwaye ikhokelela kwiziphumo ezibi. Ufuna ukukhanyiselwa. Abanye abantu ekuthiwa bangabalandeli bakaYesu bayazi ukuba bona kuThixo yaye bayayonakalisa impilo yabo. kanti ke bangamakhoboka eminqweno yabo eyonakeleyo. Baziva benetyala kwaye bengenakutsaleleka ngakumbi kuThixo ngomthandazo othe cwaka.” (iphe. 25)
“Ekuphela kwethemba kubo bonke abo bazifica kwimikhwa emibi kukuba banikezele ngonaphakade... kufuna umgudu oqinisekileyo wokuxhathisa isilingo... UMnumzana Noko ke wayezifake kule mikhwa ixesha elide kangangokuba wayebonakala engalawuleki. Le ndoda yayihambe kakhulu kangangokuba kwakubonakala ngathi uThixo uyilahlile. Wangena ehlathini waza wachitha iintsuku nobusuku ngokuzila ukutya nokuthandaza ukoyisa esi sono sikhulu. Kodwa emva koko wabuyela kwiindlela zakhe zakudala. UThixo akazange ayiphendule imithandazo yakhe [kuba engazange amnike ithuba lokwenjenjalo]. Wacela uThixo ukuba amenzele into awayenokuzenzela yona [oko kukuthi ukukholelwa]. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo wenza isibhambathiso sokunyaniseka kuThixo yaye kanye ngokufuthi esaphula izibhambathiso zakhe waza wazifica kwinkanuko embi de uThixo wamshiya kwikamva lakhe. Okwangoku uswelekile. Wayezibulala. Ubunyulu bezulu abuyi konakaliswa bubukho bakhe. Lowo uzitshabalalisayo akasayi kuba nobomi obungunaphakade.« (iphe. 27-28)
Kulungile!
Ngokucacileyo, into esijongene nayo kwiinkcazo zika-Ellen White kukuziphatha okubi komlutha. Kwenye indawo, ubhala ngokucacileyo ngabantu abathi ngokunyanzelwa ukuziqhelanisa neentlobano zesini bebodwa izihlandlo eziliqela ngemini. Wonke umntu olapha uya kuvuma ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba inkululeko ekunyanzelweni nasekukhotyokisweni, njengomyalezo ongundoqo weendaba ezilungileyo, yeyona nto ifunwa ngaba bantu kwaye bayilangazelela ngokwenene.
Kwinqaku lakhe, nangona kunjalo, u-Ulf Röder ubhala ngesondo sodwa esinoxanduva njengesiqabu. Ngaba le mhlawumbi yinto eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo apho amagama osandul’ ukuwafunda angabhekiseli kuyo konke konke?
UEllen White ubongoza abazali ukuba bathintele ababo abantwana ekufundeni “ubugcisa” bokuphulula amaphambili kwabanye abantwana. Kubo, ayisosenzo sokukhobokisa okanye ukuphindaphindeka kwesono ekufuneka siphetshwe; endaweni yoko, zombini ziziphumo ezoyikisayo zesono.
Nabani na ocinga ukuba isondo sodwa siyimfuneko njengesiqabu kubantu abangatshatanga kufuneka bazi ukuba isondo sodwa sisenziwa ngabantu abatshatileyo. Mhlawumbi bavakalelwa kukuba, ngenxa yaso nasiphi na isizathu, lingekho ithuba lokuba neentlobano zesini ngokuhlonel’ uThixo, okanye sele bezahlula kwiingcamango zabo. Ngoko ke, kulunge ngakumbi ukulawula umzimba kabani neengcinga zakhe ngoxa ungekatshati, ukuze ube yeyona ntsikelelo ibalaseleyo emtshatweni.
Ukuphulula amalungu esini kuthetha undoqo wayo yonke indlela yokuziphatha ekhobokisayo. Ngenxa yokuba lonke umlutha kukufuna ukwanelisa iimvakalelo. Ngaphandle kokuba xa kufikwa ekuphululeni amalungu esini, iindlela zokufikelela esiphelweni zihlala kwaye kuyo yonke indawo ekufikeleleni kuyo, nto leyo enokwenza ukuba ukurhoxa kube nzima kakhulu kumakhoboka.
[Isihlomelo ngoFebruwari 9, 2018: Kwiintsuku ezimbini zokugqibela, ezi ndaba zilandelayo zahamba kumaphephandaba: Oogqirha bezobuchwephesha bacinga ukuba minyaka yonke eJamani abantu abayi-100 bafa xa bephulula amalungu esini ngenxa yokuba befuna ukukhaba ngokugqithiseleyo kwiindlela ezisongela ubomi ukuba babambe. Ukonzakala ngokwasemzimbeni xa abo banxilileyo benxilile akunakulinganiswa ngamanani.]
Ukuphulula amaphambili sisichasi sokuzincama kwaye ke ngoko isono sokugqibela. Isono ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva sikhokelela ekufeni (KwabaseRoma 6,23:17,33). Kuba othe wafuna "ukusindisa" ubomi bakhe, wolahlekelwa ngubo (Luka XNUMX:XNUMX). Kodwa nabani na ofumana inkululeko ngoYesu kulo mmandla uya kufumana inkululeko kwezinye iindawo ezininzi ngaxeshanye.
Enyanisweni, amadoda nabafazi abaninzi abazinikeleyo ngoku bayakwazi ukwahlukana nehambo ekhobokisayo ngomthandazo, ukuzimisela nokuzeyisa. Kodwa into ababandezeleka kuyo, njengenxila lekota, kukuba ngamaxesha athile babuyela kweso sono kwaye abafane bakwazi ukuhlala bekhululekile kuso ixesha elingaphezu kwenyanga ngexesha.
Kutshanje omnye umzalwana ovela eJamani unditsalele umnxeba apha eBolivia efuna icebiso ngenxa yokuba oku kwenzeka manqaphanqapha okuphulula amaphambili ebusuku ngoxa elele ubuthongo rhoqo kumbuyisela umva umgama omde kubomi bakhe bokomoya. Ingqondo yomntu iyimfihlakalo, kwaye imikhwa emibi ibonakala ngathi ngabaculi abatshintsha ngokukhawuleza, bahlala befumana iindawo ezintsha kunye neendlela zokuphepha ukupheliswa.
Ngaba uThixo akanamandla ngokwaneleyo okusikhulula ngoYesu? Ithi: “Ukuba uNyana uthe wanikhulula, noba nikhululekile ngokwenene.” ( Yohane 8,36:XNUMX ) Esi sibhalo siye sabangela ukuba amaKristu amaninzi akholelwe ukuba akhululwe esonweni okanye anohlobo olunye lokuxolela ngokusisigxina nangona kunjalo. baphulula amaphambili, babe neentlobano zesini ngaphambi okanye ngaphandle komtshato, mhlawumbi kwanangesini esifanayo. Baye bayilungelelanisa imfundiso yabo yezakwalizwi ukuze ivumelane nesono esibonakala singenakupheliswa.
Kwabo banqwenela inkululeko epheleleyo kule ndawo, iingcebiso ezimbalwa eziluncedo. Iindinyana zeBhayibhile ziguqulelwa ngolu hlobo: “Kuphela ngokholo lwakho uya kudla ubomi njengendoda elilungisa.” ( Habhakuki 2,4:XNUMX P ) Yiloo nto ke isitshixo!
“Uya kwenziwa ilungisa ngokholo ngaphandle kwemisebenzi yomthetho.” ( Roma 3,28:XNUMX P ) Ukutshintsha ihambo yangaphandle okanye ukuzeyisa akusayi kuzisa impumelelo ekudala ilindelwe.
“Musani ukulithandabuza idinga likaThixo ngokungakholwa, yomelelani ngokholo, nizukisa uThixo.” ( Roma 4,20:XNUMX ) Ukuthembela kusitshixo.
Kholelwa ukuba uThixo uyasigcina isithembiso sakhe, naxa inyaniso ibonakala yahlukile! “Kodwa wena umi ngokholo.” ( Roma 11,20:XNUMX ) Ziqhelise ukuthembela kuThixo ukuba uya kukukhulula uze uligcine ilizwi lakhe!
“Ukuze nimamkele ngokholo uMoya.” ( Galati 3,14:XNUMX ) Oku kuthenjwa kuya kuyitshintsha indlela ocinga ngayo.
“Ukuze uKrestu ahlale ezintliziyweni zenu ngalo ukholo, . . . Ke kulowo unako ukwenza okungaphezulu kakhulu kunokuba nikucelayo nokuqondayo, ngokokwamandla asebenzayo kuni, kuye makube luzuko... Amen” (Efese 3,17:21-XNUMX).
Ithetha ntoni le nto? Xa uYesu esithembisa, “Banoyolo abalambela banxanelwe ubulungisa, kuba baya kwaneliswa bona.” ( Mateyu 5,6:5,21 ) Oku kuthetha ukuba uya kusikhulula esonweni xa sikulangazelela. Ngokwengcaciso yeBhayibhile, “ubulungisa” sisichasi sesono (bona amaRoma 6,13.16.18.20:8,10; 2:5,21-1-2,24-XNUMX; XNUMX:XNUMX; XNUMX Korinte XNUMX:XNUMX; XNUMX Petros XNUMX:XNUMX).
Ke kufuneka ukholelwe nzulu ukuba uYesu wakukhulula emnqamlezweni kwaye konke okufuneka ukwenze ngoku kukuphosa ngoloyiso olo loyiso ebusweni besilingo. Zivumele uzaliswe ngumbulelo onzulu kwaye ukuba uthe wasondela kwisono esidala ngokweemvakalelo, vumela ezi mvakalelo zovuyo, ezinombulelo, ezithembekileyo zidlule kuwe ukuya kwiziphelo zokugqibela zemithambo-luvo! Okukhona usenza oku, kokukhona ezi mvakalelo zasezulwini ziya kuba namandla ngenxa yokuba ukhululwe ixesha elide ngoku.
Kwaye ukuba uyawa kwakhona, musa ukukuvumela ukuba kukudimaze nangayiphi na indlela! Yiya kuThixo ngokukhawuleza, sivume isono sakho kwaye uvumele ukholo oluphilisayo lunikwe kuwe kwakhona! Yala ngokuqinileyo ukuncama ukholo, nokuba kukuthatha iminyaka emininzi ukwenza impumelelo epheleleyo ngokholo! Asinaxesha lingako njengoAbraham lokufunda ukholo luka-Abraham. Kodwa uThixo uyalazi ikamva lakho. Mthembe kunye nendlela yakhe yokuphilisa kunye nawe!
Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba uvumela ihlabathi lakho leengcamango ukuba lihlanjululwe ngendlela efanayo. Ngenxa yokuba ukuphulula amalungu esini luphawu nje olusekelwe kwiminqweno yesini, evuselela inkanuko okanye ubuncinane yothando.
Kunjengokuba esi sibhalo sisithi: “Ke kulowo unako ukwenza okungaphezu koku nikucelayo nokuqondayo, ngokokwamandla asebenzayo kuni.” ( Efese 3,20:XNUMX ) Oku kuthetha ukukulungela okungaphakathi, ukuhlanjululwa. ngokunzulu ngakumbi nangokucokisekileyo kunokuba sikulangazelela. Emva koko, kwiimeko ezilingayo, asisayi kutyibilika sidlule kwisono size sisindiswe njengeenkuni emlilweni, kodwa siya kumisa iintente ngokukhuselekileyo kude nenzonzobila kumadlelo aluhlaza natyebileyo. Iingcinga zethu ziya kuba kwenye indawo, kunye noMalusi wethu kunye nezicwangciso zakhe, iimvakalelo kunye neminqweno. Siyakungcungcuthekisa phakathi kwesihendo, siva uMoya kaThixo elawula ngokupheleleyo imizimba yethu, ekhululekile kwaye ekwazi ukwenza intando yakhe.
Ngoku, akukho mntu ufuna uloyiko lokuba ngoku kuzinikela kwinto ebonwa njengobomi obungenasiphelo, obungenasondo, uya kuphulukana namandla akhe okonwaba ngokwesondo. Okuphikisanayo. Oku kuya kuthi, ngamaxesha amisiweyo kaThixo, kwingcwele yomtshato engcwaliswe nguye, kuludlule uvuyo nolwaneliseko lwaboni abangahloneli Thixo nabakhohlakeleyo njengokuba izulu liphakamile kunomhlaba.
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