Kaninzi kakhulu kwimfundo sizama ukufumana ulungelelwaniso olufanelekileyo phakathi kwesisa kunye nokungqongqo, o.k.t. indlela eyiyo. Kodwa imibuzo eyahluke ngokupheleleyo ibalulekile. Ngu-Ellen White

Bambalwa ootata abalungele uxanduva lokukhulisa abantwana, njengoko bona ngokwabo basafuna ukukhuliswa ngokungqongqo ukuze bafunde ukuzeyisa, unyamezelo novelwano. Kuphela kuxa bona benezi mpawu abathi bakwazi ukubakhulisa kakuhle abantwana babo.

Lunokuvuswa njani uvakalelo lokuziphatha koobawo ukuze bawuqonde baze bawuthabathe nzulu umsebenzi wabo kwinzala yabo? Lo mbandela ubaluleke kakhulu kwaye unomdla kuba impumelelo yelizwe elizayo ixhomekeke kuyo. Ngokunyanisekileyo sithanda ukukhumbuza ootata noomama ngokufanayo ngoxanduva olukhulu abaye baluthwala ngokuzisa abantwana emhlabeni. Olu luxanduva apho kuphela ukufa okunokubakhulula. Kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi babantwana, umthwalo oyintloko kunye nokunyamekela abantwana kulele kumama, kodwa nangona kunjalo uyise kufuneka amxhase ngeengcebiso nangenkxaso, amkhuthaze ukuba athembele kumsa wakhe omkhulu kwaye amncede kangangoko kunokwenzeka. .

Ziphi izinto zam eziphambili?

Eyona nto ifanele ukuba ibaluleke kakhulu kubawo ngumsebenzi anawo kubantwana bakhe. Akafanele abatyhalele bucala ukuze bazuze ubutyebi okanye bafumane isikhundla esiphakamileyo emehlweni ehlabathi. Enyanisweni, ukuba nobutyebi nembeko kudla ngokubangela ukwahlukana phakathi komyeni nentsapho yakhe, yaye oku kuyithintela ngokukhethekileyo impembelelo anayo kubo. Ukuba usukelo lukabawo kukuba abantwana bakhe bavelise iimpawu ezivumelanayo, bazise imbeko kuye baze bazise intsikelelo ehlabathini, ngoko kufuneka enze izinto ezingaqhelekanga. UThixo umbeka ityala ngako. Kumgwebo wokugqibela, uThixo uya kumbuza: Baphi na abantwana endibanike lona? Undiphakamisele bona ukuba bandidumise? Ngaba ubomi bakhe bumenyezela emhlabeni njengetiara entle? Baya kungena ngonaphakade na, bandibeke?

Zeziphi iindidi zabalinganiswa abanazo abantwana bam? – Ukuchaza ngomonde nangobulumko kungcono kunokohlwaya

Abanye abantwana banobuchule obunamandla bokuziphatha. Banamandla okwaneleyo okulawula iingqondo nezenzo zabo. Noko ke, kwabanye abantwana, inkanuko yokwenyama iphantse ibe yinto engenakwenzeka. Ukuze bavumelane nezi meko zingafaniyo ngokufuthi ezibakho kwintsapho enye, ootata, njengoomama, kufuneka babe nomonde nobulumko obuvela kuMncedi ongokobuthixo. Akuyi kuba nempumelelo enkulu xa usohlwaya abantwana ngenxa yezikreqo zabo. Okungakumbi kunokuphunyezwa ngokubacacisela ubudenge nobubi besono sabo, ukuqonda utyekelo lwabo olufihlakeleyo, nokwenza konke okusemandleni ukubakhokelela kwicala elifanelekileyo.

Iiyure ezininzi ootata abazichitha betshaya [umz. Ä.] ifanele isetyenziswe kakuhle ekufundisiseni indlela kaThixo yokukhulisa abantwana nokufunda izifundo ezingakumbi kwiindlela zobuthixo. Iimfundiso zikaYesu zivula iindlela ezintsha zokuba uYise afikelele iintliziyo zabantu aze amfundise izifundo ezibalulekileyo ngenyaniso nokusesikweni. UYesu wasebenzisa izinto eziqhelekileyo kwindalo ukuze abonise aze abonise uthumo lwakhe. Wafumana izifundo ezisebenzayo kubomi bemihla ngemihla, imisebenzi yabantu kunye nonxibelelwano lwabo lwemihla ngemihla omnye komnye.

Ixesha lencoko kunye nendalo

Ukuba ngokufuthi ubawo ubahlanganisela ngakuye abantwana bakhe, unokusalathisa iingcamango zabo kumendo wokuziphatha nowonqulo apho ukukhanya okukhanya khona. Ufanele ahlolisise utyekelo lwabo olwahlukileyo, izinto abanokuzenza kunye nezinto abanokuzenza yaye azame ukufikelela kuzo ngezona ndlela zilula. Abanye bafikelelwa ngokulungileyo ngokuhlonela nokoyika uThixo; abanye bafikeleleka ngokulula ngakumbi ngokubabonisa imimangaliso neemfihlelo zendalo, nayo yonke imvisiswano nobuhle bayo obumangalisayo, obuthetha neentliziyo zabo ngoMdali wezulu nomhlaba nazo zonke izinto ezimangalisayo azidalileyo.

Ixesha lokwenza umculo kunye nokumamela umculo

Abantwana abaninzi basikelelwe ngesiphiwo somculo okanye uthando lomculo bafumana iimpembelelo ezihlala ubomi babo bonke xa oko kwamkelwa kusetyenziswa ngobulumko ukubafundisa elukholweni. Kunokucaciswa kubo ukuba banjengeyantlukwano kwimvisiswano yobuthixo yendalo, njengesixhobo esiphelelwe lixesha esivakala singenamvisiswano xa bengengobanye noThixo, nokuba babangela intlungu engakumbi kuThixo kunokuba ngqwabalala; iithowuni ezingavisisaniyo ziyakwenza kumculo wazo omnandi omnye wokuva.

Yazi indlela yokusebenzisa imifanekiso kunye nemifanekiso

Abanye abantwana bafikelela kakuhle kwimifanekiso engcwele ebonisa iziganeko zobomi nobulungiseleli bukaYesu. Ngale ndlela, inyaniso inokubethelelwa ezingqondweni zabo ngemibala eqaqambileyo ukuze bangaze baphinde bacinywe. ICawa yamaRoma Katolika ikwazi kakuhle oku yaye itsala umdla ebantwini ngokusebenzisa imifanekiso eqingqiweyo nemizobo enomtsalane. Nangona singavumelani nokunqulwa kwemifanekiso eqingqiweyo egatywayo ngumthetho kaThixo, sikholelwa ukuba kufanelekile ukuxhaphaza abantwana abayithanda phantse yonke imifanekiso eqingqiweyo size ngaloo ndlela simisele imilinganiselo yokuziphatha exabisekileyo ezingqondweni zabo. Imifanekiso emihle ebonisa imigaqo yeBhayibhile yokuziphatha okuhle ibophelela ivangeli ezintliziyweni zabo. UMsindisi wethu ukwazekelisa iimfundiso zakhe ezingcwele ngemifanekiso ekwimisebenzi yendalo kaThixo.

Ukuqonda okuvusayo kungcono kunokukunyanzela - kungcono ukuphepha imiqobo

Akunakwenzeka ukumisela umthetho wentsimbi onyanzela ilungu ngalinye lentsapho ukuba lifunde kwisikolo esinye. Kulunge ngakumbi ukufundisa ngobunono nokubhenela kwisazela solutsha olufikisayo xa kufuneka kufundiswe izifundo ezikhethekileyo. Ibonakalise ukuba luluvo olulungileyo ukuphendula kwizinto ozikhethayo kunye neempawu zomlinganiswa. Ukukhuliswa okufanayo kwintsapho kubalulekile, kodwa kwangaxeshanye iimfuno ezahlukeneyo zamalungu entsapho kufuneka ziqwalaselwe. Njengabazali, fumanisani indlela eninokukuphepha ngayo ukwenza abantwana benu babe ziingxabano, ukubacaphukisa, okanye nivuse imvukelo kubo. Endaweni yoko, ivuselela umdla wabo kwaye ibakhuthaze ukuba bazabalazele obona bulumko buphakamileyo nokugqibelela kobuntu. Oku kunokwenziwa ngomoya wobubele nomonde wamaKristu. Abazali bayabazi ubuthathaka babantwana babo yaye banokulunqanda ngokuqinileyo kodwa ngobubele utyekelo lwabo lwesono.

Ukuphaphile kwimeko yokuthembana

Abazali, ingakumbi utata, bafanele balumke ukuba abantwana bangamthabathi njengomcuphi ohlola, obeke esweni aze agxeke zonke izenzo zabo, ekulungele nangaliphi na ixesha ukungenelela aze abohlwaye ngalo naliphi na ityala. Ihambo kayise ifanele ibonise abantwana ngawo onke amathuba okuba isizathu sokulungiswa yintliziyo ezele luthando ngabantwana. Wakuba ufikelele kweli nqanaba, uzuze lukhulu. Ubawo ufanele abe novelwano kwiminqweno yoluntu nobuthathaka babantwana bakhe, imfesane yakhe ngomoni nentlungu yakhe ngomoni ifanele ibe nkulu kunentlungu abanayo abantwana ngenxa yezono zabo. Xa ebuyisela umntwana wakhe kwindlela elungileyo, uya kuziva, kwaye neyona ntliziyo ilukhuni iya kuthamba.

Yiba ngumthwali wesono njengoYesu

Uyise, njengombingeleli kunye nalowo ubambe usapho kunye, kufuneka, kangangoko kunokwenzeka, athabathe indawo kaYesu ngakulo. Nangona emsulwa, ubandezeleka ngenxa yaboni! Wanga angabunyamezela ububi nobubi bokreqo lwabantwana bakhe! Yaye ubandezeleka ngakumbi kunaye ngoxa emohlwaya!

"... abantwana bakopa yonke into oyenzayo"

Kodwa ubawo unokubafundisa njani abantwana bakhe ukuba boyise utyekelo olubi xa bebona ukuba akakwazi kuzibamba? Ulahlekelwa phantse yiyo yonke impembelelo yakhe kubo xa enomsindo okanye engekho sikweni, okanye xa kukho nantoni na ebonisa ukuba ulikhoboka lomkhwa ombi. Abantwana baqwalasela ngenyameko baze benze izigqibo ezicacileyo. Ummiselo mawukhatshwe yindlela yokuziphatha engumzekelo ukuze usebenze ngempumelelo. Ubawo ufanele akwazi njani ukugcina isidima sakhe sokuziphatha phambi kwamehlo abukhali abantwana bakhe xa esebenzisa izinto eziyingozi okanye esiwela komnye umkhwa othoba isidima? Ukuba uzibanga ewonga elikhethekileyo ngokuphathelele ukusetyenziswa kwecuba, oonyana bakhe basenokuziva bekhululekile ukubanga elo lungelo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba abapheleli nje ekuthabatheni icuba njengoyise, kodwa baphinde batyibilike ekukhotyokisweni butywala kuba bekholelwa ukuba ukusela iwayini nebhiya akukho nto imbi ngaphezu kokutshaya icuba. Ngoko unyana ubeka unyawo lwakhe kumendo wenxila kuba umzekelo kayise wamkhokelela ekubeni enjenjalo.

Ndibakhusela njani abantwana bam ekuzicingeleni?

Zininzi iingozi zobutsha. Kwibutho lethu elifumileyo kukho intaphane yezilingo zokwanelisa umnqweno. Kwizixeko zethu, abafana bajongana nesi silingo mihla le. Bawela phantsi kwembonakalo ekhohlisayo yesilingo baze banelise umnqweno wabo ngaphandle kokucinga nokucinga ngesibakala sokuba banokubenzakalisa impilo yabo. Ngokufuthi abantu abaselula bayekelela kwinkolelo yokuba uvuyo lufumaneka kwinkululeko engasikelwanga mda, ekuziyoliseni iziyolo ezalelweyo nasekuphululeni amaphambili okuzingca. Emva koko bafumana olu vuyo ngenxa yempilo yabo yomzimba, yengqondo kunye nokuziphatha kwaye ekugqibeleni konke okuseleyo bubukrakra.

Kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba utata anikele ingqalelo kwimikhwa yoonyana bakhe namaqabane abo. Okokuqala, ubawo ngokwakhe ufanele aqinisekise ukuba akalokhoboka lenkanuko eyonakeleyo enciphisa impembelelo yakhe koonyana bakhe. Ufanele ayithintele imilebe yakhe ekubeni inganikezeli kwizinto eziyingozi.

Abantu banokumenzela okungakumbi uThixo nabanye abantu xa besempilweni kunaxa begula naziintlungu. Ukusela icuba notywala kunye nokungatyi kakuhle kubangela ukugula nokubandezeleka okusenza singakwazi ukuba yintsikelelo ehlabathini. Indalo inyathelwa ayisoloko izenza yaziwe ngezilumkiso ezilumkileyo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ngeentlungu eziqatha kunye nobuthathaka obugqithisileyo. Impilo yethu ngokwasemzimbeni itsala nzima ngalo lonke ixesha sinikezela kwiminqweno engeyoyamvelo; ingqondo yethu ilahlekelwa ukucaca okufunekayo ukwenza kunye nokwahlula.

Yiba umazibuthe!

Ngaphezu kwako konke, ubawo ufuna ingqondo ecacileyo nekhutheleyo, ingqiqo ekhawulezileyo, ukwenza izigqibo ezizolileyo, amandla asemzimbeni ukuze enze imisebenzi yakhe enzima, yaye ngokukodwa uncedo lukaThixo ekulungelelaniseni izenzo zakhe ngokufanelekileyo. Ngoko ke ifanele iphile ngobungcathu ngokupheleleyo, ihamba ekoyikeni uThixo yaye iwuthobela umthetho wayo, ineliso lokona kuncinane ukuthandeka nobubele bobomi, ixhase yaye imomeleze umfazi wayo, ingumzekelo ogqibeleleyo koonyana bayo nomcebisi nonegunya. ngenxa yeentombi zakhe. Ngokubhekele phaya, kubalulekile ukuba aziphathe ngendlela enesidima njengendoda ekhululekileyo kubukhoboka bemikhwa nemikhwa emibi. Kungale ndlela kuphela anokuphumeza imbopheleleko engcwele yokufundisa abantwana bakhe ubomi obuphakamileyo.

Isiphelo: Imiqondiso Yamaxesha, ngoDisemba 20, 1877