Kwiinzame ezinyanisekileyo zokunceda okanye ukufumana uncedo, abantu abaninzi baye bawela kwindlela engafanelekanga. NguColin Standish († 2018)

[Phawula d. Mhleli: Eli nqaku lijonge ukuphakamisa ulwazi lwethu ukuze sibe ngabefundisi abaphucukileyo. Inyaniso yokuba ingqwalasela apha ikwiingozi kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo ingasitheli indlela ekubaluleke kakhulu ngayo kwaye kuluncedo kangakanani ukhathalelo phakathi kwabantu ngabanye xa luphawulwa ngentlonipho yesidima sabo bafuna uncedo. Sifuna abacebisi abangakumbi ukuze sihlangabezane nabadimazekileyo njengoYesu.]

Kule minyaka ingama-20 idlulileyo, iingcebiso kunye nokuqeqeshwa ngobomi kukhule kwaba lishishini elikhulu lezigidi zeedola. Amadoda nabasetyhini abaninzi ngakumbi bathatha indima yomqeqeshi wobomi, umnyangi okanye umfundisi kubantu abangenakubalwa abathwaxwa ziingxaki ezahlukeneyo zengqondo kunye nezinye.

Ibandla lamaKristu lakhawuleza lasabela xa laphawula ukuba baya besanda abantu abafuna amacebiso koogqirha bengqondo noogqirha bengqondo yaye bejikela kubefundisi, ababedla ngokudlala indima yomfundisi ngaphambili. Kungekudala, abefundisi abaninzi bafuna uqeqesho olongezelelekileyo ekuqeqesheni ubomi. Babenomnqweno wemvelo wokuphuhlisa iindlela zokunyamekela ukwalusa.

Ukuqeqesha ubomi abukho bubugcisa obutsha. Kuyo yomibini iTestamente eNdala kunye neNtsha kukho izehlo ezininzi apho umntu omnye wacebisa omnye. Ebudeni beminyaka yobulungiseleli bukaYesu, amadoda anjengoNikodemo noMfana Osisityebi amfuna amacebiso kubomi bawo bobuqu. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kuhle ukuba amadoda nabafazi bacebisane ukuze bomelezane yaye bakhokelela omnye komnye kumendo wobulungisa. Nangona kunjalo, ukhathalelo lobufundisi lunokuba yingozi, ngakumbi xa abefundisi benza olu hlobo lobulungiseleli lube yeyona nto iphambili kumsebenzi wabo. Ngoko ke kuluncedo ukwazi ezinye zeengozi ezinxulumene nalo msebenzi.

Qaphela umngcipheko wokubopha!

Owona msebenzi ubalulekileyo womfundisi ngamnye obizwe nguThixo kukukhokelela abo bafuna iingcebiso ekuxhomekekeni ngokupheleleyo kuThixo - hayi ebantwini. “Wonke amalungu oluntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba nguThixo kuphela abafanele bafune kuye ingcaciso ngemisebenzi yabo. Kuhle ukuba abantwana bakowenu babonisane. Noko ke, kamsinya nje akuba umntu efuna ukukuxelela into ofanele uyenze, mphendule ukuba ufuna ukukhokelwa nguYehova.”Ubungqina 9, 280; bona. ubungqina 9, 263)

U-Ellen White ubonisa ingozi yokuxhomekeka kubantu. “Abantu bazibeka esichengeni sokwamkela iingcebiso zabantu baze ngaloo ndlela baligatye icebiso likaThixo.”Ubungqina 8, 146; bona. ubungqina 8, 150) Le yingozi yokuqala kubufundisi. Ngoko ke, umfundisi uya kuba wenza kakuhle ukuqinisekisa ukuba akamkhokeleli engaqondanga umntu ofuna icebiso lokuthembela kuye kunokuba athembele kuThixo. Kuba kwanoyena umcebisi kaThixo akanakuze athabathe indawo kaThixo. Akuzange kubekho utyekelo olukhulu kunanamhlanje lokujonga abantu endaweni yokujonga uThixo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuxhomekeka okunjalo kunokukhokelela ekubeni buthathaka kozinzo lomoya nolweemvakalelo lomcebisi. Abantu abaninzi baye baxhomekeke kakhulu kwingcebiso yomfundisi kangangokuba xa umfundisi ehambayo baziva belahlekelwe, bengenanto kunye noloyiko oluvela kuphela ekuxhomekekeni ngendlela engafanelekanga kumntu othile.

Noko ke, umfundisi unokuyiphepha le ngozi ukuba usoloko ebakhumbuza abo bafuna icebiso lokuba yena ngokwakhe akanako ukuzicombulula iingxaki eziphakanyisiweyo, kodwa angathanda ukubakhokelela kumfundisi wokwenyaniso nakwilizwi lakhe elibhaliweyo. Eyona njongo iphakamileyo yomfundisi ifanele ke ngoko ibe kukujika amehlo abo bafuna iingcebiso basuke ebantwini babheke kuThixo. Kwanomqondiso omncinci wokuba umntu uxhomekeke kumfundisi unokuqwalaselwa ngokukhawuleza nangothando, ukuze umntu ofuna isiluleko amqonde ngokucacileyo uThixo njengamandla abo akhuselekileyo kunye nendawo yokusabela.

Lilumkele ikratshi!

Ingozi yesibini esongela umfundisi kukuzingca kwakhe. Njengoko abantu abaninzi beza kuwe befuna iingcebiso kunye nesikhokelo ebomini babo, ungaqala ukuzithathela ingqalelo kakhulu. Oku kumela isoyikiso esinzulu kusindiso lwasemoyeni lomfundisi.” Ukuzigwagwisa okunjalo, okuvela kubuntu obungaguqukanga, ngokwendalo kubeka emngciphekweni ukukhula kukabani ngokwasemoyeni. Ukuthabatha indima ongakwabelanga yona uThixo kunokuba nemiphumo eyintlekele. »UThixo uhlazekile kakhulu xa abantu bezibeka endaweni yakhe. Nguye yedwa onokunikela icebiso elingenakusilela. ”Ubungqina kubaPhathiswa, 326)

Ukuzingca kusenokufak’ isandla ekwakhekeni komanyano phakathi komntu ofuna icebiso nomfundisi. Okukhona encoma uncedo lwakhe, ngakumbi umngcipheko wokuba uya kuziva ethotyiwe - kunye nemiphumo emibi.

[UYesu usinike umzekelo wendlela olubonakala ngayo ulwalukelo lokungazingci nokuba inkonzo esuk’ entliziyweni kumntu ongummelwane wakho akuyomfuneko ukuba imenze ubani akhukhumale nangayiphi na indlela.]

Ukuphazamiseka kubuthunywa

Enye ingxaki ngokukhethekileyo ajamelene nayo lo mshumayeli: okukhona echitha ixesha elingakumbi kulo msebenzi, kokukhona esiba nexesha elincinane lomsebenzi wobuvangeli basemazweni. Ngaphezu kwako konke, abashumayeli banikwa umyalelo ongqalileyo kaYesu othi: “Hambani niye kulo lonke ihlabathi... nizishumayele iindaba ezilungileyo!

[…] Kubalulekile ukubuyela kumbindi weKhomishini eNkulu. Nangona kunjalo, abashumayeli abaninzi baye baxakeke kakhulu kwimisebenzi yolawulo kunye neengcebiso zobufundisi kangangokuba bayakwazi ukunikela ixesha elincinane ekubhengezweni ngokuthe ngqo kweendaba ezilungileyo kunye nokusukela ama-horizons amatsha enyaniso.

Kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu obizelwe kubulungiseleli awuqonde uthumo lwakhe, olukukuxelela amadoda nabafazi ngoYesu nokubuya kwakhe okusemnyango. Amaxesha amaninzi, lonke ixesha lomshumayeli lithathwa lukhathalelo lokwalusa. Oku kwenza ukuba angakwazi ukuphumeza umsebenzi awayewumiselwe kwasekuqaleni.

Ngelishwa, abashumayeli abaninzi baye bafikelela kwisigqibo sokuba ukhathalelo lobufundisi luxanduva lwabo oluphambili. Yiyo loo nto abanye bede bawuncama umsebenzi wabo wokushumayela ukuze basebenze ixesha elizeleyo njengabaqeqeshi bobomi.

Ingongoma apha ayikokugweba, kuba kusenokubakho izizathu ezibambekayo zolo tshintsho. Kodwa kubaluleke gqitha ukuba umfundisi ahlolisise iintshukumisa zakhe ezikhokelela okanye eziye zakhokelela kuloo nguqulelo.

[Ukuba ikholwa ngalinye likhonza abanye abantu kwinqanaba elilinganayo “njengombingeleli” wobufundisi, abefundisi banokugxila ngakumbi ekuvakaliseni iLizwi. Emva koko ukhathalelo lokwalusa lunokuhlala lungenabundlobongela kwaye lunentlonipho kuyo yonke into.]

Ingqalelo, umngcipheko wosulelo!

Ingozi yesine kumfundisi inento yokwenza neemfuno zomphefumlo womntu. Mhlawumbi maxa wambi siyasibetha ngoyaba isibakala sokuba asingomntu ofuna icebiso kuphela kodwa kwanomfundisi ochanabeke kwiimpembelelo zengqondo. Ngeendlela ezininzi zokunyamekela abalusi ezisetyenziswayo namhlanje, umcebisi uqhubana ngokunzulu nezichazwe ngokucacileyo iinkcukacha ukuziphatha okubi komntu ofuna icebiso nobomi bakhe obunesono nobugqwirha. Kodwa kuyingozi ekukhuleni ngokomoya komfundisi ukuva loo nkcazelo imihla ngemihla eyonakalisayo ngokomoya. Ikamva likabani likanaphakade lisenokuba sengozini ngenxa yokunikela ingqalelo kwizinto ezinjalo. Kulula kangakanani ukuba ngumvuma abantu abaninzi. Kodwa uThixo akazange alubeke kumfundisi olu xanduva. Ngoko ke, masikuphephe ukuhlala sicinga ngesono! Kunoko, masalathise abo bafuna icebiso kumthombo wokwenene wokuxolelwa!

[Kufuna uvakalelo olukhulu ukuba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo kwelinye icala kwaye, kwelinye icala, ngokuhlonipha imfihlo yomntu ofuna uncedo, ukubakhuthaza ukuba bakhuphe iinkcukacha zezono zabo kuBawo wethu waseZulwini. NguMoya oyiNgcwele kuphela onokusinceda ukuba senze umntu ngamnye ngendlela eyiyo.]

Buyela kwigama elicacileyo

Umnqweno onamandla wokucebisa ngobomi bomntu phakathi kwabantu bakaThixo ngumqondiso wobuhlwempu bokholo kwixesha lethu. Amadoda nabafazi abasindwa ziingxaki zobomi abanalo uxolo lukaYesu, olunokuzisa ulwaneliseko kuphela. Bakhangela kubantu ukuze bafumane uncedo nokhokelo kubomi babo. IBhayibhile iqulethe elona yeza lilungileyo lokudimazeka, ukuphelelwa lithemba nokungathembi mntu. Ngelishwa, eli yeza lidlala indima encinci ngakumbi kubomi bamaKristu amaninzi. “Ukholo ke luphuma eludabeni, udaba ke lukho ngelizwi likaKristu.” (KwabaseRoma 10,17:XNUMX)

Abashumayeli bamenywa ukuba benze umgudu omkhulu ngokukhokela amabandla kufundisiso oluqhubekayo lweLizwi likaThixo. Kungale ndlela kuphela apho kunokuthi kubekwe isiseko sobomi bobuKristu kunye nophuhliso. Ukuba kukho nantoni na esiyifunayo, kukukholosa ngoThixo. Lelona nyango lilungileyo lokuhla ngokomoya, ukuphoxeka kunye nendlela yokuphila yokuzimela geqe kuYesu.

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Eyona mpendulo

Eyona mpendulo kwiingxaki zasekuhlaleni, zeemvakalelo nezomoya ayifumaneki emntwini ngokwakhe okanye komnye umntu kodwa ikuYesu. Amaxesha amaninzi abaqeqeshi bobomi bazama ukufumana iimpendulo emntwini ngokwabo. Abaninzi basebenzisa uhlobo olulungisiweyo lonyango lwentetho lukaCarl Rogers. Kule ndlela yonyango, i-therapist iba luhlobo lwe-echo eludongeni ukunceda umntu obandezelekileyo ukuba afumane isisombululo kwingxaki eyabazisa kwi-therapist. Le ndlela iphuma kwintanda-bulumko yamaGrike yabahedeni ngenxa yokuba isekelwe kwingcamango yokuba kukho inyaniso engqondweni yomntu ngamnye nokuba abantu banokufumana iimpendulo zabo kwiimfuno zabo.

Abanye basebenzisa inkqubo eguqukayo ngakumbi yokuguqulwa kokuziphatha. Nangona kunjalo, oku kuxhomekeke kakhulu kumaxabiso omfundisi. Umfundisi uthathela kuye ukuba achaze ukuba yeyiphi na indlela yokuziphatha enqwenelekayo. Ngoko ke usengozini yokuzibeka kwindawo kaThixo kumntu ofuna icebiso aze amkhokelele kude kumthombo wokwenene woncedo alufunayo.

Indima yomshumayeli njengomfundisi kufuneka iqwalaselwe kwakhona ngokukhawuleza; ukusebenza kwawo nemida yawo, ukuze umsebenzi kaThixo ungaphambuki kwinjongo yawo eyinyani nesisiseko – oko kukuthi, ukugqitywa koMyalelo oMkhulu, ukuvakaliswa kweLizwi ehlabathini, nesigidimi sokuba uYesu sele eza kubuya.

[Ukuba siyazazi iingozi ezikhankanyiweyo, isiluleko sisenokuba sesona sixhobo sinamandla sokukhulula abantu kumatyathanga abo ukuze banandiphe ubomi ngokuzeleyo, kungekuphela nje kweli hlabathi lobumnyama kodwa kwanangonaphakade.]