Ubuntu obuhlukile: ukuqonda nokwazisana kanye nokuthuthukisa amakhono omuntu

Ubuntu obuhlukile: ukuqonda nokwazisana kanye nokuthuthukisa amakhono omuntu
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Amazwibela Ethemba Namuhla No. 5. Ibhalwe nguPatricia Rosenthal

Eminyakeni embalwa edlule sathenga usofa. Mhlawumbe unesibindi ngendawo yokuhlala encane esitezi sokuqala sendlu endala enamapulangwe kanye nohambo lwangempela lomphakathi wethu owabelana ngamafulethi onezizukulwane eziyi-8.

"Ingabe ulinganise kahle ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi ilingana?" Impela, ngikwenzile! Okungenani into enjalo. Njengengxenye »isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo« kodwa kusobala ukuthi: "Lokho kufanele kusebenze! Ake sizame nje!’ Phela ungase uwuhlukanise.

"Ngeke ukwenze kanjalo!" kuhlebeza umfowethu (umcwaningi wezengqondo) oneminyaka emibili, enikina ikhanda, futhi ngokushesha futhi ngokunembile waqala ukucabanga ngesibalo esiyinkimbinkimbi sokuthi ingxenye enhle inganyuswa kanjani phezulu komngcingo, izitebhisi ezonga isikhala eziya esitezi sokuqala.

Ngokushesha nje lapho ekhiphe imitha yakhe yedijithali waqala ukubhala izibalo zakhe ephedeni lakhe elisha kwabe sekufika ubaba (umthokozisi) ekhoneni, wambambatha ehlombe wathi: “Woza, yinqume! Sizokwenza nje!"

Ngokushesha ngemva kwalokho, umama (uthishanhloko), owayengisizile ukuba ngikhethe usofa ngokunemba kwakhe, wavela futhi ngokushesha wabeka wonke umuntu eduze neziyalezo ezimbalwa ezihlabayo.

Indodana yami endala, edabukile yagxuma yabheka phambili ngenjabulo futhi yaphawula ngokwenzekayo. Indodana yami ephakathi nendawo, eyayingenalwazi yayimncane kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi, kodwa ukube yayikhulile ngabe yavele yalunguza ngokucophelela ngemuva kwemilenze yami futhi yahleba, "Mama, ngizokuvikela!"

Futhi omncane wami? Akazange azalwe ngaleso sikhathi. Kodwa ukube wayenjalo, wayeyokwenza inhlekisa ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ahlole ukuthi ingxenye enhle isebenza kanjani.

Umyeni wami (umlingiswa oyinhloko) naye ubenomdlandla. Wanganga ngothando futhi wayesebona ngeso lengqondo abantu abaningi esingabanikeza usizo olubalulekile, oluyisisekelo lokuphila kusofa onjalo.

Yebo, futhi ukube umkhwekazi wami (umsingathi) ubengekho matasa e-ayina ilondolo yethu, ngokuqinisekile ubeyononga umcimbi ngesimo sakhe esinqobayo saseSpain futhi alungisele zonke izisebenzi ezisebenza kanzima ushokoledi oshisayo.

Muhle wonke umuntu

U-Andy Warhol kubikwa ukuthi wathi »angikaze ngihlangane nomuntu engingakwazi ukumbiza ngobuhle«, okusolwa ukuthi "umlamuli« noma »umphuphi«. Yebo, wonke umuntu muhle futhi uhlukile! Kodwa kusho ukuthini okuhle? Futhi kusho ukuthini okuyingqayizivele?

Esikhathini esithile ekuphileni kwabo, cishe wonke umuntu uye wazibuza lo mbuzo: ngingubani mina? Kungani ngisebenza ngendlela engisebenza ngayo? Kungani ngicabanga ngendlela engicabanga ngayo? Futhi kungani omunye ecabanga futhi esebenza ngendlela ehlukile?

Ukuzazi kuyasiza ukuba uwena. Ukukwazi ukuba nguwe kwanelisa kakhulu futhi kunomvuzo kunokuzama ukuba omunye umuntu. Kuyathakazelisa kakhulu ukuqonda abanye futhi ukwazi ukuzibonela ngawabo ebunyeni babo njengozakwethu.

Izibonelo zobuntu zisetshenziselwa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi konke lokhu kuyaphumelela.

thola ubuntu

Kimina bekujabulisa ngendlela emangalisayo ukuthola abantu abahlukene eminyakeni embalwa edlule futhi nokuqonda ukuthi ubuntu, ukuguqulwa kanye nokungcweliswa kusebenzisana kanjani. Phela, sizobugcina ubuntu bethu kuze kube phakade. Kodwa kuyini-ke lokhu okuguquguqukayo kakhulu ebuntwini bethu bese kupholishwa futhi kuphuculwe? Futhi ukuqonda ubuntu obuhlukahlukene kungisiza kanjani namuhla ukuba ngithuthukise inkonzo yami kaJesu futhi ngiqonde kangcono abanye hhayi ngenhliziyo kuphela kodwa nangokwengqondo?

Ngiphendula le mibuzo esihlokweni sethu sesibili kumagazini wethu wakamuva we-HOPE HEUTE usebenzisa imodeli yomuntu siqu ekhethiwe.

I-quintessence umcabango omuhle: Wonke umuntu uhlukile! Futhi “uJesu akezanga emhlabeni wethu ukuze abonise lokho uNkulunkulu angakwenza, kodwa lokho umuntu angakwenza uma ethembela emandleni kaNkulunkulu kuzo zonke izimo eziphuthumayo.” ( Ellen White).

Kodwa-ke, i-Hoffnung HEUTE No. 5 yayisanda kuvela kwabezindaba futhi manje inga-oda ku-Silvia no-Frank ().

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