Si anthu ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amene amapemphera. Ndi Kai Mester

Anthu ambiri amafuna kuwomboledwa kosintha moyo. Kodi angapezeke kuti? Kodi chikhulupiriro chingabweretse njira yopulumukira?

Nthawi zambiri timafunafuna mayankho ndi machiritso m'malo olakwika kapena mafunso ndi zovuta zolakwika. Kenako timayamba kuipiraipira, kulowa m'zodalira zatsopano, kuvutika kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri chifukwa chake ndi chakuti timagwiritsa ntchito abwenzi, atumiki, akatswiri a maganizo, othandizira monga ansembe amakono. M’malo mopenda malangizo awo ndi kulola kuti Mulungu aziuona kudzera m’Mawu ake, timawapatsa malo amene ali a Mulungu yekha. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, anthu ambiri avutikanso.

Palibe munthu angakhoze kukumasulani inu ku machimo kapena zizolowezi, koma Mulungu yekha. Kukhulupirira malonjezo ake ndiko chinsinsi cha ufulu. Koma ngakhale osakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu amasangalala ndi ufulu wapang’ono mwa kutsatira pang’ono mfundo za makhalidwe abwino za Mulungu, kaŵirikaŵiri popanda kudziŵa chiyambi chake.

Kusamvana kwakukulu

Kusamvetsetsana kwakukulu ndi chiyembekezo cha kumasulidwa ku malingaliro ena, omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala zizindikiro za malingaliro olakwika, koma nthawi zambiri zimakhalanso zotsatira za kukumbukira zowawa, zizolowezi zakale kapena ngakhale kusalinganika kwa thupi. Ndi angati afuulira kwa Mulungu kuti awachotsere malingaliro amphamvu amene amawakakamiza kuchita monga oyendetsa akapolo amachitira akapolo awo, makhalidwe amene samafuna kwenikweni, amanyazi, osadziŵika nawo.

chidziwitso chatsopano

Ena amalakalaka kudziŵika kwatsopano kuti akwaniritse ziyembekezo za dera lawo, chitaganya, kapena chipembedzo, ndipo chifukwa chakuti umunthu wawo wamakono uli wozengereza m’maganizo kutero. Enanso amayesa kuchita zinthu mogwirizana ndi mfundo imeneyi, koma samvetsa chifukwa chake zoyesayesa zawozo zimalephereka mobwerezabwereza motero amalakalaka kudziŵikanso.

Baibulo limatilonjeza kuti tikhoza kukhala anthu atsopano kudzera mwa Mesiya. “Ngati munthu ali mwa Khristu ali wolengedwa watsopano; zakale zapita, taonani, zafika zatsopano.” ( 2 Akorinto 5,17:2,20 ) Koma kodi zimenezo zikutanthauzanji? Paulo akufotokoza m’kalata ina kuti: “Ndikhala ndi moyo, osati ine, koma Khristu ali ndi moyo mwa ine. Pakuti chimene ndikukhala nacho tsopano m’thupi, ndikukhala nacho mwa chikhulupiriro cha Mwana wa Mulungu, amene anandikonda ine, nadzipereka yekha chifukwa cha ine.” ( Agalatiya XNUMX:XNUMX ) Ngati Mesiya akhala mwa ife, ndiye kuti tikukhala m’thupi ndi anthu onse. namondwe wake wamalingaliro ndipo komabe kunyamula mtanda wa kudzikana tokha, kotero kuti zosankha zathu zitsogolere ku kuganiza, kulankhula ndi kuchita zomwe zimatizindikiritsa ife monga ophunzira a Yesu, zimawonetsera chikhalidwe chake.

Chitsanzo kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha

Tiyeni titenge chitsanzo cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Masiku ano chikuwoneka ngati chizindikiritso chomwe chiyenera kulemekezedwa ndikuphatikizidwa ngakhale muzochitika zachipembedzo. Koma kodi pali malingaliro ena pankhaniyi omwe alibe chifundo chachikhristu komanso amatsimikizira kugonana ngati mphatso yoperekedwa ndi Mulungu popanda kukayikira lingaliro la m'Baibulo la kukhala ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi mmodzi?

Anthu amene amakopeka kwambiri ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo komanso amene amasamala kwambiri za amuna kapena akazi anzawo, angakhale ndi mavuto ambiri kuposa mmene ankaganizira. Poona kulolera kwa dziko kwa masiku ano, malinga ndi mmene Baibulo limaonera, onse awiri ayenera kudzimana modabwitsa.

Chifukwa ngati akufuna kutsatira Yesu, onse awiri ali ndi “vuto” lofanana: Malo okhawo oti otsatira a Yesu azikhalamo mwa kugonana ndi kukhala muukwati wa bwenzi limodzi kufikira imfa itawalekanitsa. Baibulo limatcha kugonana kwa munthu asanakwatirane kapena kukwatiwa ndi dama kapena chigololo. Chifukwa chake, munthu aliyense ali ndi mphamvu yochokera kwa Mulungu yokumana ndi anthu osawerengeka m'moyo mwaulemu waukulu ndikukulitsa kulumikizana koyera molingana ndi chitsanzo cha Yesu.

Tsoka ilo, kukopeka koyamba kwa anthu ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumacheperachepera moyo wabanja ukayamba. Zosadziwika zapereka njira kwa odziwika. Koma ngati onse aŵiri atsogozedwa ndi mzimu wa Mulungu, ndiye kuti amafika pa mkhalidwe wozama wa ubwenzi wabwino koposa ndi unansi wapamtima, umenenso pamakhala mikhalidwe ya kutengeka maganizo nthaŵi ndi nthaŵi.

Komabe, kukopeka kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kukopeka ndi anthu akunja kumatha kuwononga lingaliro la m'Baibulo la banja m'malingaliro a omwe akukhudzidwa ndi omwe ali pafupi nawo.

Komano, anthu amene amakopeka kuti azigonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha savutika kupeza mabwenzi abwino kwambiri ndi mnzawo amene si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzawo akamasankha kuchita zibwenzi za m’Baibulo. Ngakhale maukwati achikale nthawi zambiri amavutika kutengeka mtima kukangotha ​​ndipo zachilendo zimachepa, pali kuthekera kwakukulu kokhazikika pano.

Moyo wokhutiritsidwa wakugonana ndi ana ako omwe mogwirizana ndi lingaliro lachikhalidwe la m’Baibulo la banja ulinso wotsegukira kwa ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha oterowo. Chitsanzo cha maukwati ambiri m’mene okwatirana onse aŵiriwo asankha mwachidwi moyo umenewu chimatsimikizira zimenezi. Ena a iwo asiya zochitika za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ena amakana molimba kuyambira pachiyambi kapena atawotcha zala.

Choncho mavesi otsatirawa amagwira ntchito mosasamala kanthu za mmene tikumvera kapena kutivutitsa, ndipo mosasamala kanthu za mayesero amene tingakumane nawo, kaya ndi mantha kapena chikhumbo.

“Yendani mumzimu, ndipo simudzakwaniritsa zilakolako za thupi.” ( Agalatiya 5,16:6,13 ) “Chotero nyamulani zida za Mulungu, kuti tsiku la choipa mudzakanize ndi kugonjetsa zinthu zonse, ndi kusunga munda. ” ( Aefeso 16 ,5,20 ) Ndi chishango cha chikhulupiriro tikhoza kuzimitsa mivi yonse yoyaka moto ya choipa ( vesi 6,7 ). Mphamvu yomwe ilipo ya chisomo imakhala yamphamvu nthawi zonse kuposa uchimo (Aroma 12:17). “Pakuti iye amene adafa adamasulidwa kuuchimo.” ( Aroma 18:XNUMX ) “Chotero musalole uchimo uchite ufumu m’thupi lanu la imfa, ndipo musamvere zilakolako zake.” ( Vesi XNUMX ) , koma tsopano mwakhala omvera ndi mtima wonse.« ( Vesi XNUMX ) »Popeza mudamasulidwa ku uchimo, mudakhala akapolo a chilungamo.

Zitsanzo kwa osakwatiwa

Zomwezo zimapitanso kwa osakwatiwa. Yesu mwiniyo anakhala kunja kwa unansi wa ukwati kwa zaka zonse 33 za moyo wake wapadziko lapansi. Kotero iye anakana kwathunthu m'dera la kugonana ndipo anakhala chitsanzo chachikulu kwa osakwatiwa pankhaniyi. Paulo anapitirizabe kuchita zimenezi ngakhale atakula. Iye analemba kuti: “Ndi bwino kuti mwamuna asakhudze mkazi.” ( 1 Akorinto 7,1:7 ) “Ndikanakonda kuti anthu onse akhale ngati ine, koma aliyense ali ndi mphatso yake yochokera kwa Mulungu. zina monga choncho. Ndikunena kwa osakwatiwa ndi akazi amasiye, kuti kuli bwino kwa iwo kukhala monga ine.” ( vesi 8-XNUMX )

Palibe paliponse pamene pamanena kuti anthu okanthidwa ndi mayesero ayenera kupeza chithandizo kuti alimbane ndi malingaliro awo kapena kuchepetsa chiyeso. “Okondedwa, musazizwe ndi moto umene ukudza pa inu, kudzakuyesani, monga ngati chachilendo chikukuchitikirani, koma kondwerani kuti mukumva zowawa pamodzi ndi Kristu, kuti inunso mukhale ndi chimwemwe ndi kukondwera mwa vumbulutso la ulemerero wake. ’ ( 1 Petro 4,12:2 ) “Yehova adziŵa kupulumutsa olungama ku chiyeso.” ( 2,9 Petro 1:10,13 ) “Mulungu ali wokhulupirika, amene sadzalola inu kuyesedwa koposa mphamvu yanu, koma ayesa kuti mufike poyesedwa koposa mphamvu yanu; kuti mupirire.”​—XNUMX Akorinto XNUMX:XNUMX.

Kukhala wophunzira ndi kusankha kudzipereka ku moyo wosadzikonda molingana ndi malangizo a Mulungu. Palibe Mkhristu amene angapewe mtanda umenewu. Nthawi yomweyo, palibe chomwe chimamasula ngati kutembenukaku.

Komabe, ziyeso kapena ziyeso zilibe kanthu kwa Mulungu. Mzimu wake ukupambana onsewo! Osati chithandizo, koma kutsatana motsimikiza komanso mwachidwi ndilo dongosolo latsiku. Ndilotseguka kwa aliyense ndipo limatipanga ife tonse kukhala ofanana pamaso pa Mulungu: abale ndi alongo mu gulu lomwe limapangitsa dziko kukhala lowala ndi lofunda, ana aamuna ndi aakazi a Mulungu panjira yopita kudziko lakumwamba.